I've been with my boyfriend for 10 years...three of them he was still with his ex...they have been broken up for 6 1/2 years now. They have a 12-y-o son together. She is an alcoholic, has tried to kill herself many times (once in the bathtub wit their won in the same apartment)...She doesn't seem to get that they are over. or is it me that's dreaming... he tells me he loves me, SHOWS me he loves me in many ways...what would you do about this situation. P.S. she is completely psycho and at one time was threatening to kill me and even came to my apartment while i wasn't here asking my neighbors about me. But that was two years ago and i haven't heard from her since..confused and totally in love but i am stuck
2007-01-01 16:47:15 · 11 answers · asked by kim 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
She's pathetic.Be happy with your man.He is where he wants to be.
2007-01-01 16:49:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
You put this in the fashion and accessories section. Was she wearing evening gown with matching pumps and faux pearls when she showed up at your apartment?
I'll be blunt. The ex may be psycho - but I believe that you are a homewrecker. You had an affair with a man who had a wife and a two year old son. They will never totally be over - because they have a son together. You chose all of this. You are "stuck" right where you put yourself.
2007-01-01 16:56:20 · answer #2 · answered by liddabet 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Personally I would get out of this situation now! If your man is still in touch with his ex, its because he still has feelings for her OR he still loves his kid. By the way you describe your man, he is probably not the one. If he loves you enough he will choose you over this psycho woman.
2007-01-01 17:09:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if it has been 2 years, why are you concerned now? And you dated her husband for 3 1/2 years before they divorced and you wonder why she doesn't like you?
Wait until he does the same to you (and he will) then you will understand her anger.
M
2007-01-01 16:51:05 · answer #4 · answered by maamu 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm not sure what your question is, but who is taking care of the child? Is he being raised by a suicidal alcoholic?
2007-01-01 16:50:08 · answer #5 · answered by ginger 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well if she hasn't bothered you for a while then just leave it she might of gotten over it if not then talk to your 'man' and sort it out, something has to be done! if it gets out of hand go to the police.
2007-01-01 16:50:26 · answer #6 · answered by ??=!! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so what was your question?
you were the "other woman" i am assuming. never cool. get out now because i am sure there is another "other woman" in the picture and you don't even know it....
if someone cheats once, they are bound to do it again...
2007-01-01 16:49:02 · answer #7 · answered by christy 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think you mave have to get a PFA against her and call child services on her.
2007-01-01 19:09:28 · answer #8 · answered by Suga 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
call the police. get a restraining order. shes threatening and stalking you
2007-01-01 16:50:20 · answer #9 · answered by me 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
wow i agree with lizzabizz, nice answer!
2007-01-01 17:36:04 · answer #10 · answered by yourbestasset86314 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋