i saw a question asked earlier that was addressed to the GLBT community, yet it was slightly out of place (you know which one i'm talking about)
so now i'm curious as to what answers i'll receive from the same community but with my question...
lol! ok, here it goes...
my "ex" left me for another gut some time ago. this isn't the first time she has done something like this, mind you
she basically forced me to break up with her by purposely making us argue and even saying the words "just break up with me already"
so i did
but her new relationship didn;t go so well and now she wants me back
i of course turned her down and found out later that she had cut herself from the depression of having the one she truly loves (me) reject her and for having hurt him by leaving him for another
i don't want her to hurt herself, yet i definitely do not want her back either
what do you think i should do in this situation??
2007-01-01 16:33:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Suggest to her that she get professional help for her problems. Then do what you need to do to protect yourself. In my mind this would include ending all contact and relationship with her. Your first duty is to yourself and your own well-being. Don't be suckered in here. She will only drag you down with her in time. Good luck to you.
2007-01-02 04:12:34 · answer #1 · answered by Seeker 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
...i'm sure you feel betrayed by her wandering?, but in todays society it happens routinely, (which is sad, would'nt you agree?)
...i'm not suggesting that you "take her back", but at one time the two of you did have something special together right?,...so, maybe you could find it in yourself to support her through her emotional crisis?,...be there to console her, be there to listen, be there to comfort, be her friend,...this may help her knowing that she still has a friend in you?
...if she persists in injuring herself, then you may want to seek a professional intervention...
...my best to you and her during these trying times...*kiss*
2007-01-02 06:01:10 · answer #2 · answered by tiny dancer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stay away. My best friend had a girlfriend that was like that. Once she realized she couldn't get his attention any more, she stopped being self destructive and moved on.
2007-01-02 08:59:10 · answer #3 · answered by tombollocks 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can be friends with her - though don't get in a deep relationship with her. Just friends.
It might be enough to make her happy until she finds another.
2007-01-02 05:51:29 · answer #4 · answered by Nota LGBT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋