Why are there so many questions on interracial relationships?

Question

Are we trying to put down one race and give preference to another. Some White women feel black women are jealous. Why? If you all really wanted Black men then why now has it become so popular, did some White women realize that Black Men are nowa prize. Is it because of Hip Hop music is so main stream. Is it a new trend. Don't forget it is Black women that give birth to Black men That some White Women are going crazy for. Black women Know that to keep The Black race alive we need to stick with our men. Jealous, I think White women are the ones that are jealous because the now know the secret of a Black man. Only White women in relationship with Black men know what I am talking about. Black people where just taught over years to hate ourselves. I believe in and love interracial relationship based on pure love. Not the ones that are based on money, sex, colour preference, status etc. Why does everyone that ask these questions about one race dating another always comes down to jealousy.

This is for musi200. Listing faults in Black Men is not the answer. Every race has sterotypes against them. You are doing what everyone else is doing putting down a race. I did not put anyone down. I want to know Why they assume one race is jealous of the other. You did not answer my question?You just provided put downs on Black Men. Do not generalize! I said some.

And another thing all the things you listed as height, hair type, etc. are superfical. It time people change, you need pure love. How told you the secret of a black man is that they are good in bed. Thanks for the info. I guess you believe in sterotypes too to come up with that one. I want to know why do White women think black girls are jealous.

Answer 1

1. Your question is confused.
a) It is anti interracial relationships: "Black women Know that to keep The Black race alive we need to stick with our men."
b) It is pro interracial relationships: "I believe in and love interracial relationship based on pure love."

2. It has racial/sexual stereotyping:
a) Presumably that black men are better at sex: "I think White women are the ones that are jealous because the now know the secret of a Black man."
b) At least it didn't introduce some of the other stereotypes:
(i) black men are incapable of being faithful;
(ii) black men treat their women disrespectfully;
(iii) black men only think of women as sex objects;
(iv) white men have a small penis;
(v) white men are no good in bed;
(vi) black women are sexually voracious ...
etc. etc. etc.

3. I have no idea where this idea of jealousy comes from, and I don't see that many questions on interracial relationships (well not in Society & Culture, anyway).

4. Inevitably, people will always have some preference in a partner, and this can cover many areas: height, body type, hair colour, hair length, hair type, eye colour .... and yes, complexion too. That, in itself, is not a problem.

5. Whatever the combination, the durability of the relationship depends on things such as love, respect, care, consideration, communication, support etc. These matters are far more important than ethnic background. This is the 21st century.

EDIT
Yeah, whatever - you're question is still confused, and you haven't understood my answer.

Answer 2

Simple. While interracial dating is becoming a more accepted practice it is still a taboo. Think about even amongst those who respect a person right to love and date whom they please we still have thought of, "How am I going to tell my parents!". Just as with homosexuality and other sexual preferences/fetishes. As of late the more in conflict things are with society norms the more we tend flock to them. In the 80's oral sex was definite "no-no" at least was such in the black community. Now you can hear about people licked and sucked and almost rap song. In ten years or so the term interracial dating will be an after thought.

Answer 3

good question