He told me to check his phone only to his surprise I knew how to check the call time and I knew he erased the number. He then and only then told me it was an old lady co-worker. What the hell is on his mind. He knows that I don't care that he has lady friends so why be sneaky?
2007-01-01 16:20:19 · 23 answers · asked by freeme529 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is my husband. Sorry for the omission.
2007-01-01 16:24:30 · update #1
I didn't go behind his back. I asked him who was he talking too and he told me to check his phone because he didn't want to say. He thought I was stupid to only look in the call log for names and not call times because I remembered when he received the call. And yes he has been untruthful in the past.
2007-01-01 16:34:31 · update #2
dont fall for it! hes cheating on you! btdt
2007-01-01 16:24:31 · answer #1 · answered by jojo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He’s hiding something, and I don’t think it’s the kind of secret that is good news. Just think about it, why did he erase the number in the first place? This raises suspicion, and if it was really an old-lady co-worker why didn’t he just say it from the start why play games and make you check his phone? Well, I really can’t say what it is he’s up to and would not say he’s definitely cheating—although a good possibility. He’s your husband and you know him best then any of us, if you think there is something wrong with the picture then there probably is. I suggest you take everything into consideration as to why he would act the way he did…is this normal behavior for him or is it a bit strange for him to all of sudden act differently…etc…
Trust your gut; go with your intuition because it never ceases to lie to you.
Good Luck.
2007-01-02 00:33:35 · answer #2 · answered by UnknownJaneDoe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he knows you wouldn't care if he had lady friends and he acting sneaky about this then I would say he has a reason he is hiding this call. Wait until the bill comes in or call the phone and get that number then find out what's really going on.
2007-01-02 03:39:46 · answer #3 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he obviously is trying to hide something for some reason. But if you don't care that he has lady friends then don't let it bother you or get to you. Move on. If he really is trying to be sneaky and hide something from you that he knows you will get upset about he is more likely to screw up when he thinks that you aren't thinking about it and it doesn't bother you than if you are always checking behind him and asking questions...that gives him the opportunity to stay on his toes. We all deserve Little privacy sometimes. I am sure he doesn't know EVERYTHING about you!?
Good luck!
2007-01-02 00:28:44 · answer #4 · answered by sarteaga1970 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is being sneaky, then there is a reason why. people are sneaky when they are trying to hide something, sounds like your guy is sneaky, heres what i would do. call the cell phone company and get a itemized list of the calls coming and going from his phone, make sure you write down when hes being sneaky with who hes on the phone with, also go get a mini voice recorder, place it in the room he will be talking in when hes on the phone with her, and if you find something suspicious, contact the tv show cheaters and exploit his sorry *** all over tv
2007-01-02 00:27:41 · answer #5 · answered by Sparky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not on the up and up, I can assure you. But if you're comfortable with him having female friends, then you're probably never going to find out for sure, every woman's phone number in his cell will just be a "friend."
2007-01-02 00:33:33 · answer #6 · answered by spitonapit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is hiding something, tell him that you want to hear him talking to this old lady, let him asking her why did she call? anything she wants? use a three way phone, from the conversation, you can tell if there is something going on.
2007-01-02 00:25:29 · answer #7 · answered by Discovery 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where there is smoke, there is often a hotter source.
Tell him to reassure you, or you will end this now. File for divorce, that will get his attention. If that doesn't make him want to reassure you; then you know he wants OUT. In which case, the proceedings were already started.
2007-01-02 00:28:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does everyone assume that if someone is sneaky they are cheating?????? He could of done it because maybe he wanted to prove a point or maybe he is planning something. Relax!
2007-01-02 01:51:40 · answer #9 · answered by Danielle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
watch out something is up and it might not be another woman.. it might be, depends on what he is doing when he isn't with you. If he knows you don't care about his lady friends then he might be telling you the truth.. hard to tell but watch your back.
2007-01-02 00:25:15 · answer #10 · answered by KayAlley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
has he ever given u a reason do not trust him. i know this, from personal experience if he had did this to u, checking your phone, u would have blown a major gasket. why did u go behind his back anyway
2007-01-02 00:29:05 · answer #11 · answered by keithy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋