hi my name is jessica and im 16 and i really want a baby me and my bf have been trying for a year y cant i get pregnant is there some sort of pill i can get please help me me and my bf are getting married on my 18 we have been planing for a few years now and we are really in love and we no what we are doing please help
2007-01-01 16:12:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
go see a doctor to see whats wrong if you really wont to have a baby. it could be a medical problem. happy new year,and good luck!!!!
2007-01-01 16:29:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO NO NO NO. You should not even let the idea of having children invade your thoughts. And that boyfriend of yours do you really believe he will be there when you have a child NO HE WILL NOT. He will tell you that is not his child and move on with rest of his adult life meanwhile you are tied down with a baby who did not ask to come into this world. Do you have a stable job ( Not McDonald's)? Do you have a home (Not your Parent's House)?
Sweetheart instead of worrying about how to make a baby you need to worry about what college you are going to attend and what will you be when you grow up. Because obviously you are living a life of fantasy. By the way where are your parents?
2007-01-02 16:15:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should wait and finish school and get ready you need a home car and a job but if you really want a baby and you are not going to listen to any one you need to relax stress can stop you from having a baby time your ovulation and have s*x on the day before and keep you hipps in the air for 20 mins that helped me with my 2nd one
i was a teenage mother and it was hard the father left and i have done it on my own for 8 years and it was hard
please think about this long and hard and i wish you luck on what ever you do
2007-01-02 00:27:13 · answer #3 · answered by GINA D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would really sit and think twice about why you want a baby? I would take you not getting pregnant a sign from God. It may not be the right time. You still have so much to learn and so many parties and trips, friends, that stuff tends to leave when you have children young. REALLY think about it!
2007-01-02 00:27:29 · answer #4 · answered by MNU22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try sex in your parents bed...or his parents bed. Worked for most of my friends when i was young. On the other hand...Why do you want a baby. I was 22 when I had my little one and I still sometimes miss my freedom. I also miss having cute clothes and going out as all the money and time goes to her. Also its great that your bf wants one too...but he may change his tune when he has to shell out money for the kiddo and then where are you left when he takes a hike?
2007-01-02 00:16:13 · answer #5 · answered by christina k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing really you can do... go to www.babycenter.com and track your ovulation...Have sex all 5 days of your ovualtion and make sure he comes in you and put ur bottoms elavated put a pillow under your butt for at least 30 minutes I hope this helps.. I am 16 as well and im 9 weeks pregnant and couldn't be happier!!
2007-01-02 00:25:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, b4 u get a baby think about these things
1) do i have money for a house?
2) can we handle having a baby?
3) would my parents freak out and kick me out when i get a baby?
4) will i get an std?
there are plenty of questions u need to answer b4 u have a baby, and for god sakes man,ur just 16 and a minor
for ur problem, maybe its just that ur b4 is sterile, or ur just that u cant get pregnant, probably caused by something,like stds, i learned it from my health class
2007-01-02 00:16:00 · answer #7 · answered by burning ice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to relax. Stress can be the reason why you can't conceive. Did you get a chance to check with your doctor if all your organs are ok? Bring your boyfriend to the doctor to check on his sperm count. He could be the reason why you can't conceive. Allow the doctor to do some medical checks first and take it from there. No special pills are available to get one pregnant.
2007-01-02 00:17:41 · answer #8 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...Maybe its not meant to be yet. When its supposed to happen, it will! Stop stressing out about it and maybe it will happen faster. Thats what one of my friends did, she was trying for like 2 years, and then she kinda gave up, and then guess what? She was pregnant the next month!! Life has its ways of playing tricks on us.
Hope you get your wish.
2007-01-02 00:18:49 · answer #9 · answered by cleverness_444 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want a baby? Do you know how expensive it is to raise kids?
Just because you want something really badly doesn't mean it's meant to be for you. I really want a million dollars, and have for at least 20 years, but it hasn't happened yet.
2007-01-02 03:33:23 · answer #10 · answered by E Yow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's highly immature and incredibly selfish for you to be trying to bring a baby into the world when you are this young. I understand when people make mistakes... but you are intentionally trying to bring a baby into a situation in which you aren't even grown up yourself. It's sad. I hope you won't get pregnant... and maybe you'll have a chance to grow up and do something with your life.
2007-01-02 02:48:28 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋