along with my step daughters and now she is all pissy and said if it was me with a GF she would be ok and want me to be happy so there is no way she'd do it. Now she's in the other room bitching to the LDist BF about me. Isn't he just laughing at me??? I just can't take anymore of it... does it make any sense?? Why should be pissy with me 600 text messages to him in 2 days...thank god it's free...
2007-01-01 15:59:42 · 13 answers · asked by gueroslaptop 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Let him pay for her darn cell phone now! Ugh. My best to you!
2007-01-01 16:05:00 · answer #1 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she needs to be moved out your home and all ties separated asap. Since you said she's "in the other room fussing to the LDist BF about me" I think you're doing her more of a service than most men would do for an adulterous wife by letting her stay at your place.
You owe her nothing financially really since you don't have children together.
2007-01-01 16:06:26 · answer #2 · answered by mycountryfamily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you would really rather do more than that. MOre than just the cell phone.
Doubt that new BF is laughing. But also doubt that he will be with her for long or at ALL just as soon as you guys split altogether. And guilty people allways pick arguments and act OUTRAGEOUSLY ANGRY simply as a mechanism to get the attention and the blame off of them. You deserve an answer and the respect of explainations. However, PLEASE REALISE THAT SOMETIMES IF YOU HAVEN"T GOTTEN THE ANSWER THAT YOU WANT, . . . That NO RESPONSE might just be your answer. And people do DUMB things all of the time that they simply cannot explain . . cause they don't know WHY THEY DID THAT.
Believe me, you won't feel satisfied simply by reacting by doing something vindictive.
AND YOU DO HAVE AN ABSOLUTE VALID PIONT. Sure, you might not like it, but you will feel better in the long run to do what you REALLY FEEL.
2007-01-01 16:51:13 · answer #3 · answered by Babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, why doesn't he pay for her phone? Why should you be paying for her phone? Her communication with him should not be your problem, it should be his. If I was someone else, I would be laughing at you and not for shutting it off, but for letting her get over on you like that. Who cares if he is laughing? Tell her you are laughing at them two. (1) b/c he nor she can pay that phone and (2) what type of low life is she starting to date, that he can pay her phone and will ***** about you doing it.
Second, why is she still in your house? I would kick her out. If I were you I would tell her to go move into her boyfriends house. You look like the biggest sucker and that's the truth. When people split up they don't continue to live together until everythings final. They split up and go seperate ways. So why is she and her daughters still there. B/C YOU'RE A SUCKER. Ask any man and she would've been kicked to the curb.
And about her not caring about you talking to a GF as long as you are happy, tell her that that's great, but if she wants to act like an independent woman then she needs to be one. Tell her to get a job, find her own place, and she needs to go. There's nothing more to it.
The package comes with the marriage. No marriage, no package. So if she wants to reside in your home for free, have you pay for her phone and her daughters phone, then she should've thought about that b4 she started dating a loser who in reality has no interest in being more than a long distance BF.
You need to man up. Cut off anything that she uses that you pay for. Stop being nice. Let her ***** all she wants. She doesn't deserve any of it. She's very manipulating. It's also sad b/c you are still in love with her and that's how come she gets away with anything with you b/c you hope that it can work one day. BUT IN REALITY, DO YOU WANT SOMEONE TO BE WITH YOU B/C THEY ARE IN LOVE WITH YOU OR BECAUSE THEY PITY YOU AND YOU CAN GIVE THEM WHATEVER THEY WANT. I choose love.
2007-01-01 16:18:35 · answer #4 · answered by Rica 82 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello,
why in the h***is she still there to bit** at you if i were you she would be curbed....she is the one that strayed from the relationship not you and why is she on your phone????i would take it and get it wet so she would have no cell phone...i am a woman i and i would never do that to any one that i am with....she needs to live with the ldist bf if she is talking to him now and i would be very rude to her...but i am sure that your keeping your cool for the kids right?????but she would seriously be outta my house by tomorrow there would be no waiting and i would make sure of it.....i am single if you would like to talk???good luck
2007-01-01 16:12:10 · answer #5 · answered by wendy p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you! You put the two timing bitc* in her place. Take the house, the dog, the car, the kids, and yank the land line wire out of the wall while your're at it! No husband (or wife) should be humiliated like this.
2007-01-01 16:08:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
600 text messages in two days? Is your soon to be ex wife 13? I didn't think adults did that. That is amazing.....but not in a good way.....and why is she in the other room talking to her boyfriend.....shouldn't you be gone, or her? THAT in itself isn't making much sense.
2007-01-01 16:10:51 · answer #7 · answered by spitonapit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yank the cell and grow up. Your ex-to-be should be your ex now!
2007-01-01 16:11:32 · answer #8 · answered by tklines 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you! You shouldn't foot the bill for her LD romance.
2007-01-01 16:10:50 · answer #9 · answered by CyndiDrum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you will continue to let her text message if you can continue to do her in the butt
2007-01-01 16:25:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋