I met this boy on myspace. He is so sweet and not the kind of guy who would get into your pants. Well he is kinda bad but he knows that I know that. Anyway he has pics of himself on myspace and I think he is cute and he thinks im cute but he hasn't seen a pic of me yet. I don't want him to judge me on my pic. I want him imagine whatever he has been imagining this whole time that we have been talking. He hasn't asked me to see my pic nor brought up the subject. Do you think he thinks that he will judge me too?
2007-01-01 15:51:52 · 18 answers · asked by citygirl18 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ummmm... lets see I don't think he will judge you cause you just said that he was sweet ... And if this person loves people for who they are in the inside then he wont care at all... I just say you show him a pic since well you seen his ... and after all if it doesn't work out there is other guys waiting for a girl with your looks and attitude... Take it from a girl who knows ... Just trust your self and belive also ...
2007-01-01 15:58:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you show him your picture, it most likely will change the way he thinks about you.
That's something natural that everyone does.
We don't want to but we all judge other other people based on looks a little bit sometimes.
If you are not confortable with the way you look, then don't show him a pic until he asks for it. And if you are really really unconfortable with the way you look, then tell him you don't have pic uploaded and can't because you don't have a scanner or digital camera.
He will see it eventually probably so go ahead and show it now if you are confortable with it.
2007-01-01 15:57:55 · answer #2 · answered by argentina1989 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don’t get it? You say he thinks “you’re cute”…how can he think you're cute if he hasn't even seen you yet? If you should show him your picture because that's how you look like and if he likes you then he does...instead of wasting his time "imagining" whatever images he's imagining in his head...because he may get really mad later when he finds out that you're not what you portray yourself to be or look like. So just tell the truth about how you look like, no lies, but don't give him personal information (ex:address). And no you don't have to show him your photo until he asks for it, but I am sure he will sooner or later so be prepared to show him one...if you tell him you don't have one, he'll probably either lose interest or make you snail mail it to him.
2007-01-01 16:51:05 · answer #3 · answered by UnknownJaneDoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont care how sweet he is, he is a guy and he wants into your pants. He may not act on it, but he does want it. You might as well show him the pic, you are cute i assume? Either way, if you want anything out of this to continue to another level post the pic.
2007-01-01 15:55:16 · answer #4 · answered by tomhale138 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you know all the pitfalls of on-line romances. Sexual predators can be pretty smart in describing what they think you want to here.
That aside. Have you protrayed yourself in any way other than you really are? If so, it's time to come clean. If there is an adult or friend in your everyday real life that your trust, please share with them about this boy. And let him know you have. That will hopefully scare off the wrong sort of person.
And yes and no. You should be honest about youself and behave just as if he could see you.
2007-01-01 15:59:12 · answer #5 · answered by San Diego Art Nut 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question really maybe think do u where makeup i he's showing u his pic u kinda have to show urs put on more makeup than u usally would and make ur self look hot i know that sounds kinda wrong but u cant avoid showing ur pic 4ever cuz he might stop talkin to you
2007-01-01 15:56:34 · answer #6 · answered by Stephanie B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lacy Q is right. Your picture and personal information can get into the wrong hands so easily on this I-net. Besides, people lie about who and what they are on the net. Dont be a sucker for that good ol boy stuff. You should be very careful about sending your picture to someone that you REALLY DONT KNOW.
2007-01-01 15:58:39 · answer #7 · answered by BudLt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. Not ever....
1. Your already nuts over a teacher who is 20 years older than you.
2. You have a crush on a married man
3. Now you want to send your picture to a stranger on line.
I read your questions...you really are too young and can get yourself into a lot of trouble. I suggest you hit the books...you need an education to get you out of your dream world.
2007-01-01 16:07:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go ahead and show him the pic. If you really like him, you'll have to show him sometime. May as well find out now if you're wasting your time or not. Good Luck.
2007-01-01 15:54:12 · answer #9 · answered by pzratnog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use your own judgement. Myspace and the internet, period, is filled with wackos and pervs. Up to you, make the smart choice.
:D <3
2007-01-01 16:04:46 · answer #10 · answered by Guava 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋