it always has something to do with our child , give her an inch she takes a mile .it just seems like she goes out of her way to be a ***** , why do people act like that
2007-01-01 15:48:14 · 15 answers · asked by iambk4life 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Can't blame the ex for this. You are responsible for controlling your own emotions. Ex's can do things that irritate us, it's how we react to these negative actions that get us to feeling angry or disgusted.
Best thing to do is control your own emotions, and approach the stupidity of the ex with an intelligent, calm, demeanor.
2007-01-01 23:42:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She pushes your buttons becasue YOU LET HER do so.
You can NEVER change her......you can only change how you react to her.
You two are in a dance of anger. There is a great book that changed my life......The Dance Of Anger
When she talks to you....totally stop your normal and usual reactions. It will blow her mind. It takes some pratice on your part, but it can be done.
You will be amazed at the self control and power you feel and you will unarm her. You child will benifite from this lack of drama in your life.
2007-01-01 23:54:28 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot of couples like to continue to punish eachother after divorce. It's her way of holding on and trying to control your life, even if it's just anger. Turn the other cheek for your child's sake. Your son or daughter will learn over time who the "bigger" parent really is.
2007-01-01 23:58:40 · answer #3 · answered by spitonapit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because your ex knows how to push your buttons. If you guys had a bad break up, that could also be why she's acting like that.
2007-01-01 23:50:00 · answer #4 · answered by bri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's unfortunately people are fool's like that using there child as a pawn to get what they want. which isn't fair. you may have to tell your ex to straiten up or you will lessen the visition time with the child untill the child smartins up there act.
2007-01-01 23:58:33 · answer #5 · answered by ladybug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is probably why she is your ex. Learn to stop thinking of her as your ex and start thinking of her as your child's mother. That helped me a lot after my divorce.
Best of luck. Co-parenting is hard.
2007-01-01 23:50:15 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she acts this way bc she is your ex.she pisses you off but she doesnt have to live with you anymore.dont let her get to you,show her you have moved on and you dont need her drama in your life anymore
2007-01-01 23:52:21 · answer #7 · answered by starr67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably kind of hates your guts right now-----she isn't going to be able to see your point of view on anything. Try to be patient with her.
2007-01-01 23:55:49 · answer #8 · answered by MamaCat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u letting her push your buttons, take control
2007-01-01 23:51:16 · answer #9 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
deep down inside i would like to think that yall still love each other
2007-01-02 00:18:30 · answer #10 · answered by blackprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋