Okay. There is this girl living in my dorm. She's beautiful and I really want to get to know her. The thing is, she barely talks to me. She's always giving me these short little answers and stuff. I think she likes me, but something's stopping her from making a move. Anyway, I've decided to leave her alone. I don't think it's healthy to keep worrying about it, but I can't. I know it seems I shouldn't be that worried because I never dated her, and I know I sould pitiful, but I need some help. Give me some suggestions about how to get over her.
2007-01-01 15:45:54 · 8 answers · asked by pjonkml 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
There's nothing you can do really. If she is not connecting with you then she's not for you. Spend time away from your dorm to get your mind focused elsewhere. Sometimes we just have to accept the fact that what we think we want is not necessarily what we need, or what's best for us. I know it's not the answer you are looking for but she doesn't seem to be interested. Sorry.
2007-01-01 15:54:11 · answer #1 · answered by cripesokay2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest spending more time in the campus library. Not to sound smug or anything but I was once in your situation. It was in the library that I found some of the coolest people who introduced me to others. And it doesn't cost anything.
2007-01-01 16:00:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a crush, the not so p.c. term is lust, and it is perfectly normal... you may or may not experience many of these throughout your lifetime. Experience allows you to temper this though. Just keep looking... you're doing just fine!
2007-01-01 16:16:54 · answer #3 · answered by guicoder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you really have genuine good feelings for her.establiship first friendship with her and show her that you really have good intention for her. get to know each other first and be honest avoid desguise because it will only hurt both of you most specially you in the end.
2007-01-01 15:57:03 · answer #4 · answered by agapetos 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend more time with some other friends and less time at your dorm.
2007-01-01 15:49:04 · answer #5 · answered by DeAd DiScO 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Seek out you another friend and put her on your mind and sure enough you will soon forget about her.
2007-01-01 15:49:35 · answer #6 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she gay or straight? Maybe you are just thinking she likes you? You know, wishful thinking?
2007-01-01 16:22:43 · answer #7 · answered by pinkrosegreeneyes bluerose 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
date guys
2007-01-01 15:48:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 9⤋