I don't really have a problem when I'm around guys. We screw around and do crazy stuff. But when it comes to girls, I have a tough making friends with them. I get nervous and think that I might make a fool of my self if I talk to them. Could someone please give me some advice on how to change that. Thanks a lot. Really appreciate
2007-01-01 15:41:36 · 11 answers · asked by Ritesh S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Why don't you just try acting normal around them. Try to pretend they are just one of the guys. I used to have the same problem then I realized that you need a good balance of friends and not every girl you meet has to end up physical. Try not to think about anything else in the relationship other than friendship and I think things might come a little easier.
2007-01-01 15:46:50 · answer #1 · answered by osufan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most important thing is to be yourself and who you are! Don't put on a front and pretend to be someone that you are not. You want a girl to like and accept you for you.
Nothing wrong with being shy. Some girls find that a good quality in a guy. Especially when they get tired of the guys that are so pushy and forward.
You will eventually find a girl that comes along that you feel completely and totally comfortable around and you won't have this problem.
Good luck to you!
2007-01-01 23:45:47 · answer #2 · answered by sarteaga1970 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard, but try not to think of the gender differences, because believe it or not, a lot of other guys have the same problem, and a lot of us girls feel the same around guys. Start out slow and if, in the middle of a conversation you start to get a little more nervous, don't feel bad about letting her know. Who knows, maybe she feels awkward around guys and it would probably help.
2007-01-01 23:48:14 · answer #3 · answered by Raven Blackfyre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step one watch the Tao of Steve.
Step two read How to Win Friends and Influence People (how to pick up chicks)
You'll be unstopable.
Quick tip:
1) Talk to them about them. Ask them questions about them but don't be weird and interigating you must be sincerely interested to know about them.
2) Smile.
3) Don't be the puppy dog, be King Kong.
2007-01-01 23:45:03 · answer #4 · answered by John 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be nervous. Stay calm and just walk up to a girl that u wanna be friends with and just talk. If you u don't think u can be friends with her, try another girl.
2007-01-01 23:44:45 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♥Kortney♥♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself ****!!!!!!!!! i have geeky guy friends and cool ones. THey all have there goods and bads. cool ones r cute, geekies r funny. Come on just loosen up. Just talk with us like if we were one of the guys. But dont talk about nasty ****, that would make u weird and perverted.
2007-01-01 23:46:59 · answer #6 · answered by futuristic_bunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make a fool of yourself.
2007-01-01 23:45:02 · answer #7 · answered by ___ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use a sweat stick under your pits and get a grip.
girls dont like pussiesss.
2007-01-01 23:43:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TAKE A DEEP BREATH IN RELAX AND TREAT THEM WITH RESPECT. RESPECT US FOR WHO WE ARE AND THAN YOU WILL HAVE NO PROBLEMS AT ALL. IF YOU WANT TO PRATICE YOU CAN PRATICE ON ME IF YOU LIKE TO.
2007-01-01 23:49:30 · answer #9 · answered by ladybug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself they either like u or they dont
2007-01-01 23:46:08 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋