I'm 18 now and never been kissed by a boy....I'm not in a rush to find love but some people are just out there and think automatically that it suppose to happen early. I'm not a party girl yet ....
2007-01-01 15:18:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Hi,
Now I wonder why you posted this in Lesbian, Gay... section? Anyway, as previous answerers have already said, don't worry. Nothing wrong with not being a party girl but don't let social taboos stop you from initiating intimacy if you find someone you like.
2007-01-02 06:56:55 · answer #1 · answered by phoneypersona 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No worries. And no rushes either. A kiss really isn't worth it unless it means something to both of you. The first kiss I actually can remember I was 19. I know I kissed a hand full of girls between junior high and then, but I don't even remember some of their names. I don't remember the kisses. I don't even know if I'd remember the girls if I saw them again. But I do remember the first girl I was serious about. I walked her to her door, she kissed me goodnight, and I drove home two hours in the wrong direction before I could think straight enough to realize it. THAT was a kiss. Anything else was and will always be pointless.
So my point is - if you just go out kiss hunting and get yourself a kiss just to say you have one, you might satisfy your urge to be like one of your perceived majority of friends, but it probably won't be the kiss you are looking for. You're not too old and you can't be too old until the day you die. Worry about finding the right person who's going to care about you and the kiss will come in time.
2007-01-02 23:08:21 · answer #2 · answered by Jordan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I'm 20 and I've never been kissed. And while I find it a tad embarassing that my younger brother has smooched more than I have, I'm not going to rush around to get it done. Let it happen when it happens- it'll be fantastic.
In my opinion, you're never too old to have your first kiss. Better late than never, right? ;-)
And don't worry about not being a party girl. I never was, because I just don't see the fun in it- I have fun my way, and I don't need alcohol, drugs, or humping on the dance floor to do it. If you aren't into that scene, don't do it just for a peck on the lips.
Good luck!
2007-01-02 04:31:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way. Just don't worry about it.
On the otherhand I would say that kissing is EASY and not a big deal. It's really nothing to worry about.
Take your time.
2007-01-02 10:30:22 · answer #4 · answered by psychedelic_fighter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 20 when I had my first kiss.
2007-01-02 16:55:55 · answer #5 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋