Im a 15 year old male, people call me gay in school, even thought Im not gay, what Should I do to stop them. No girls, will go out with me becuase Im fat and have acne. Its really making me mad, every school I go to people think Im gay, Im not gay,and I'm tired of hearing "Ignore it" becuase I've been ignoring it for over 10 years now, what do I do?
2007-01-01 15:11:17 · 19 answers · asked by Shawn 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well that is unfortunate as boys will be boys. They are probably doing this beacuase of your weight and acne. Pretty much they are being mean. Really it is just a way for them to find a kid to pick on so that no one picks on them. Ignoring it is probably the only answer. As getting into fights only makes it worse. Once a kid knows he or she can push your buttons then they will.
To be honest ignore them and work on the weight and acne problems. Find ways to outsmart them. In other words react to them before the do to you. Don't get into fights and all that but be firm and stand up for yourself.
If you really work on your other two problems you mentioned weight and acne things will change especially when they see your change of attitude. Your two problems are probably related to them picking on you and giving you low self esteem.
I found when I was growing up I would stand my ground. I got very firm verbally. I would not start a fight but I would not take the crap the other kids started. After awhile they got tired of it because I would not take it and they felt threatened by my attitude.
2007-01-01 15:20:21 · answer #1 · answered by logan 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This was posted 7 years ago so your about 21-22 now. The laws have obviously changed since then and I'm turning 15 in a few months and a few of my friends have jobs but I don't know how I go about getting a job today. I would really appreciate if someone could give an up to date list of jobs and how to get a job create a CV etc. Thanks in advance to anyone whose kind enough to help :)
2016-05-23 04:54:23 · answer #2 · answered by Christine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Shawn why don't you try getting some of that pro-active. They have coupons for three months for free. Then try getting caught at having sex with a girl on campus. Just kidding about that. Maybe you could just start being obnoxious to all the girls at your school. Like blowing them kisses, smacking them on the back side. Read up and find ways to make the girls really like you. Regardless of what people say, don't let it get to you. You know in your heart what the truth is and that is all that matters. School will be over soon and there are people out there that will like you and not say that about you.
2007-01-01 15:26:03 · answer #3 · answered by airtightreality 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate it that people are assholes... try to improve your outer appearance. Proactiv and Clean and Clear work nicely for acne.
Go to a gym and work out 2 or 3 times a week. Go jogging or play some sport everyday after school.
2007-01-01 15:18:15 · answer #4 · answered by among_ashes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lose weight, invest in acne cream and get in shape so you can kick there candy *** all over the school yard. Bonk a girl tell her to spread the word! Good luck!
2007-01-01 15:15:26 · answer #5 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually that is a form of sexual harassment threaten to sue the pants off then speak to your school councilor if you have one see your doctor for your acne and a diet start to do some excercise for you not for anyone else its great to be healthy and you must understand that it takes many kinds to make up the world and there is always going to be a fair share of a**eholes in it
2007-01-01 15:59:46 · answer #6 · answered by flossypants 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if its bothering you this much then here are some steps you should take
1.) buy proactive to take care of the acne
2.) start working out and eating healthier..and then over the summer work out more (cus youll have more time)...(but not at an unhealthy level)
3.)work with a friend to work on your girl skillz...have them help you with flirting and askin a girl out and stuff
i hope this helps!!
2007-01-01 15:15:30 · answer #7 · answered by Micelle Rye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try to socialize more. Hang out with kids who are outgoing and are popular. I'm in high school to and its ruff.
Try to distance yourself from that persona people are giving you and present yourself in a different light. Work out, get proactive or Noxzema, and meet girls who are like you.
2007-01-01 15:29:28 · answer #8 · answered by gabby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should slug the next guy that calls you gay. They won't stop picking on you till you stick up for yourself. Guidence counslors and teachers etc. can't always help, you need to do it for yourself.
2007-01-01 15:57:33 · answer #9 · answered by felixtricks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say..."and that is your business, because?" Sweetie, you aren't missing out on much. You aren't making babies ot STD's. Study hard, get into a top college and then guess what? College girls are easy.
2007-01-01 15:14:15 · answer #10 · answered by mekeygabriel 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋