I have more guy friends than girl friends. The other night I went out with my best friends (three of which were boys and one other girl). The entire dinner and a movie get together were conversations about sex and what girl is hot and what girl is not. This is obviously a common thing with boys, but they don't realize that I don't want to hear about who they had sex with at a party. I love my boys to death, but I was kind of left out of the conversation the whole night because I didn't have a sex story to share. What should I say the next time we hang out?
2007-01-01 14:57:47 · 12 answers · asked by sunshine_3896 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just tell them that u r uncomfortable when they talk like that in front of u!
2007-01-01 14:59:54 · answer #1 · answered by Legant 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Great question! First off, I do counseling work and a red flag pops up when I hear of a woman who spends more time with guys than girls. Whats up with that? Secondly, you are on their territory. If you are not potentially dating material for these guys, than you really are just "one of the guys to them". Its not right to change them. Even though you care about them, you may need to find girl friends to hang with if you want to feel like part of the group and fit into the conversations. I have a feeling that girl friends have done you wrong in the past, or for some reason you don't feel like you fit it with girls. Girsl that have grown up with big brothers and no sisters often go thru this. If that is the case, I would get some counseling to help you get this straightened out. You don't want to be more like a guy and you cant expect the guys to be more like girls. They are completely different. Find some friends who talk about something other that their sex stories. Find some people that have some ambition and want to make something of them selves. Hope this helps.:)
2007-01-01 15:17:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to remember that you are hanging around guys. If you ask them to change their conversation around you they will start alienating you. I am guessing by the fact that you have more guy friends then girl friends that you are a bit more aggressive. You may like sports and getting dirty (riding 4 wheelers and such). Also just set back and listen. You have an incite into what guys really are like and not what all those girls who set around painting their toe nails with 100 other girls know.
2007-01-01 18:05:49 · answer #3 · answered by spursandcuffs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is so sad to me to hear how many young teens are irresponsibly have sex and bragging about it. Sex is such a wonderful and most incrediable thing, but its given away as if its nothing. So get some new friends, like guys who actually respect girls. Keep your relationship with your parents strong and make them your best friends. They are the ones who will be with you all your life and love you forever. These guys? Well, you will always be just "one of the guys.."
2007-01-01 15:04:45 · answer #4 · answered by DT 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i understand a pair of adult men who've smaller pals they carry close out w/ ... it is so pathetic b/c they think of they're the toughest adult men and the main masculine. Napoleon syndrome all and sundry ... ? Haha !
2016-10-06 07:46:06 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put on a satin babydoll nightgown from Victoria's Secret and invite them over for a pajama party. If they don't figure it out then, they're obviously idiots.
2007-01-01 15:05:30 · answer #6 · answered by Dollface 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should smack em out and make em wake up a bit!! So they can see you're not just one of the guys and that it's not alright to talk about that stuff like that around you.
2007-01-01 15:06:24 · answer #7 · answered by Queen of Scream Fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"listen, i am not a dude, or a lesbian. so i would really like it if you guys would talk about something we could all talk about together. talk about hot girls on your own terms. if not, i simply can not hang out with you anymore. you are driving me nuts." you could also say what you just told us. maybe hang out more with your girlfriends. change the subject. or, display yourself as more of a girl, you may be portraying yourself as "one of the guys." Good luck!! :)
2007-01-01 15:02:21 · answer #8 · answered by A Girl 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell them to keep there tall tales to them selves because you already heard about the tweezers mishap.
2007-01-01 15:00:08 · answer #9 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
trust me guys are guys, can't change them but you can change the subject. just start talking about the guys you have been with (you can make up stories just like them too) and they will shut up soon!!
2007-01-01 15:04:29 · answer #10 · answered by onyx maiden 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋