I like a dude, and he knows I like him. He won't tell anyone who he likes, even though he flirts with me but I guess I could be wrong and it is just a joke all the time. What I don't understand is that he used to tell me everything and now he tells me nothing. What should I do? We are friends, not best friends though, he would always tell me things that he wouldn't tell anyone else. I am confused about it all. What should I do? Ask him out, leave him alone, ask him why he is being secretive????
2007-01-01 14:56:37 · 9 answers · asked by Tomboyalc123 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
he is a great cute guy and he isn't the type that if you ask him out and he says "Lets just be friends" he is the kind that says "**** off" or something like that. But besides that he is really nice.
2007-01-01 15:00:36 · update #1
I am 13 years old! :-)
2007-01-02 12:48:16 · update #2
He might like you, but maybe not. I had the exact situation some time ago. He only flirted with me, to mess with my head...men can be such jerks...anyway, the only way to know is to simply ask him. He is likely not telling you things, because he feels awkward. It is awkward to find out your friend has a crush on you. Talk to him definitely. Sometimes things like this ruin relationships, due to being too awkward. He might even feel invaded. You should talk to him, and tell him you want to know who he likes, because you feel tortured, and you want help. Good Luck. I hope this helps.
2007-01-01 17:17:08 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i reckon he likes you.
isnt it normal for guys to kind of withdraw from a person when they have feelings?
he migiht be confused about how he feels and he just needs space to think.
dont seem to nosey though.
he might get annoyed.
but i think you should ask him about it (not too much) and just try and get it out of him.
goodluck [[:
2007-01-02 01:45:52 · answer #2 · answered by Lor. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u really like him then just ask him out. i think he might just say yes. you know, do something reckless for once.and if he says no, it will be okay. there are other boys besides him out there.Good Luck!{> _<} or =)
2007-01-02 01:29:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what grade r u in? ask him y he being so secretive then u might get an answer
2007-01-02 01:35:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you both are close then just talk wiht eachother., ask him whats up and see if he wants to go one a date. if he says o just remember you are still his friend at least! =)
2007-01-01 22:58:40 · answer #5 · answered by laa dee da 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt tell u anything because he probably think that u'd get a fit when he tells u he likes this and that, or something like it
2007-01-01 23:25:10 · answer #6 · answered by burning ice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should stop assuming and start asking him.. only way to get to the next step
2007-01-01 22:59:18 · answer #7 · answered by r6xtc 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop wasting your time and brain on such stuff and spend your time developing your interests so you can go somewhere in life.
2007-01-01 23:38:58 · answer #8 · answered by cassandra 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How come everyone elses questions are making it on but mine aren't??????????
2007-01-01 22:58:07 · answer #9 · answered by Truthordarelover 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋