walked out my back door to smoke a cigg the other night when i looked in the neighbors yard and seen my other neighbor and him in her back yard having oral sex------------there both married with kids and i wana say somthing to someone but dont know what to do ----should i just shut up or tell there spouses??????????
2007-01-01 14:26:27 · 27 answers · asked by tony 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My husband cheated for two years with the wife of a couple we partied with. Lots of people knew, but no one told the other husband or me. I felt like such a fool when I found out!
I wish someone would have told me long before it got to the point that he left me for her. Had I learned about it earlier I may have been able to save my family and the other family from being torn apart by a divorce.
In other words, TELL SOMEONE!!!!! If nothing else, write him/her a letter without signing it. At least they will begin to have suspicions and check things out.
2007-01-01 14:35:58 · answer #1 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First ask yourself would you want someone to tell you if this was your situation. Then go from there. If you decide yes, you don't have to tell any information, you should just plant the seed and let the person start watching their partner. If the person isn't smart enough to catch it then you will need to become more creative. Because you don't really want to be the one who brings this to light when you live next door to each other. That can create a living hell at your home and home should not be that way. Ask yourself what is really important to you the truth being told or peace at home and amongst your neighbors. Me I need the peace however I would definitely plant the seed. Because I would want someone to tell me. Remember if you come out and tell everything you must have physical proof because it will become your word against theirs. Remember there are 2 people who you will be telling the truth on. Good Luck
2007-01-01 22:40:01 · answer #2 · answered by bronz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they're neighbors I'm sure it won't take long for their spouses to find out. I'd keep out of it and let them make their own mistakes since I'm sure they will catch up with them.
2007-01-01 22:38:55 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if my husband was so low as to bang the neighbor right where i could walk out and see, then id want to know, and i think hes asking for it. do what YOU feel is right. i agree with the whole anonymos thing. make sure you get pics for proof though
2007-01-01 22:41:46 · answer #4 · answered by *never give up* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you consider yourself to be a good friend of the woman's husband or whatever, I would steer clear of getting involved.
2007-01-01 22:30:37 · answer #5 · answered by hethbabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that rule in school about being a tattle-tale? If it isn't happening to you then mind your own business!! Not to say that it's not bad but don't get caught up in it !!
2007-01-01 22:29:58 · answer #6 · answered by answergrrl3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go over to there house and tell them you couldn't help but see and it has made you uneasy then they know there caught but don't tell their spouses. They might fear you will and tell on themselves anyway.
2007-01-01 23:23:00 · answer #7 · answered by Trisha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beat the piss outta the dude and make him pay you $100,000 to keep your mouth shut. Bet your lovin me for this idea huh?
2007-01-01 22:30:29 · answer #8 · answered by oink 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just shut up itz none of ur bussiness. wutever has to come out it will come out by itz time but u don't wana be the bad guy.
2007-01-01 22:29:25 · answer #9 · answered by Legant 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get involved. No one is going to thank you for wrecking 2 homes.
2007-01-01 22:29:11 · answer #10 · answered by justbeingher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋