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He is on heart meds, lung meds etc....can get an erection but not keep it......driving him crazy....he is not a candidate for the medicines Viagra etc out now....How do you convince him its OK

2007-01-01 14:14:22 · 4 answers · asked by Gypsygrl 5 in Health Men's Health

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SoBelle,

First off, you rock!

Seriously, I'm in the same boat and to have an understanding woman at my side would be a huge advantage.

Most cardiologists should know a good therapist (sex therapist?) with experience in counseling heart and lung patients. Start there for advice.

In the meantime, maybe a co ck ring (haven't tried one, but maintaining an erection is what they are for). Also, let your husband know that the two of you can take care of your needs with or without an erection. The best aphrodisiac is knowing that you enjoy being with him even in his compromised condition!

This is too complicated for YA so get some medical advice and stand by your man. Time to get creative and to change expectations a little bit. Good luck.

Maybe send an email to Talk Sex with Sue; it would be a great topic to cover.

2007-01-01 16:36:51 · answer #1 · answered by Just Chillin' 2 · 0 0

I really feel for him - sex is a big part in a man's life and not being able to is really hard. You may both need to see a counselor that can give you personalized advice. Best of Luck.

2007-01-01 22:31:12 · answer #2 · answered by Jared L 4 · 1 0

You rode that horsy hard cowgirl. Time to put him out to pasture. He's so old he can't even stud no more. Get him a pump.

2007-01-01 22:24:55 · answer #3 · answered by golfer0197 2 · 1 1

sex is not everything give him love and tell him that your love is there for him inspite of everything he is facing. a women does not want only sex.

2007-01-02 05:29:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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