2007-01-01 14:05:20 · 21 answers · asked by KEIOLA R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's hard to deal with, but you can't make someone love you. It takes time, lots and lots of time to heal. Two years is a long time and it takes at least that long to heal if not longer if you were truly in love with him. Make sure you don't let people talk you into going out when your heart is not ready for it. It only makes things worse. You will know when you are ready. Don't try and replace him....it never works. Just wait......
2007-01-01 14:11:00 · answer #1 · answered by whisper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he don't love you anymore, why is he still with you? How long have you known this and why doesn't he love you anymore? It's really hard to answer a question that is so vague. You could stay with him for as long as he lets you or atleast until you can handle this truth and you are ready to accept that and move on. Maybe, eventually, he will fall back in love with you. It will only get harder on you the longer you stay with him. Why put yourself down like that. Try to get over it and move on.
2007-01-01 22:28:55 · answer #2 · answered by airtightreality 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he didn't cheat or anything and told you honestly that he doesn't like you anymore, I dont think he did anything wrong, you don't want to be in a loveless relationship
about you still loving him....been there, it's hard, rebounds are always fun, but make sure to tell the guy he is a rebound so you dont play with him
and well, hang out with your friends, keep busy, and crying never hurts
oh and don't try to just find another boyfriend because you feel lonely, you will find another one when the right one comes, you're not worthless alone
2007-01-01 22:10:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cry. You talk to your girl friends and get some support. But you have to let it go. Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't love you? You have a lot of love to give. Find someone deserving of that love who will love you in return! It will happen.
I'm sorry for your heartbreak. I've been there. It hurts. You'll be okay, sweetie. Just give it time.
2007-01-01 22:09:47 · answer #4 · answered by fluffomatic24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if someone doesn't like u than it would be a disaster to try and force the issue, or stick around, as it will only make u miserable. don't ever stay where u are not loved or wanted. as there are always more fish in the sea, and someone out there who will like u. just move on, do well in life, and show that person u can be happy without them, that is true revenge.
2007-01-01 22:34:58 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act like you don't care anymore! First of all, practice makes perfect and after a while you will believe it too! Another cool thing is sometimes a guy just like a challenge. Either way you'll win and still save face. Good luck sweetie :O)
2007-01-01 22:11:52 · answer #6 · answered by pooty36 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always bear in mind that love must be two-ways for a relationship to be long term. Unless you want to sacrifice yourself, which is futile. You will be living in hope for the rest of your life. Nothing is permanent in life!
2007-01-01 22:27:32 · answer #7 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it the best way u can but, whatever u do don't try to get over him by dating someone else it will only hurt u more! try ur best to get over him ,start by being away from him as much as u can! stop talking to him as much as u can, u will be only hurting yourself more. I 've been there before and the way i dealt with it was not to see him even if i cried myself to sleep at nite. Love will heal itself!!
2007-01-01 22:34:31 · answer #8 · answered by sammysep26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant just cut your feelings off like a light switch. it will take some time getting over and it will be hard but you can do it. you cant control how someone else feels about you so dont hurt yourself more by trying to force something that isnt there.
2007-01-01 22:09:41 · answer #9 · answered by PreciousLady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Awwwe, remember what makes you feel strong and giggly like a child and chase those feelings. Find something to do that feels good, ok? Be nice to you.
2007-01-01 22:26:51 · answer #10 · answered by peacegypsy@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋