i think im pregnant by my ex what should i do ? the bab thing is that he has a gf . help
2007-01-01 13:49:42 · 23 answers · asked by jen 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
im 22 and i work full time and i go to college .
2007-01-01 13:53:47 · update #1
Well, hun, let's just say you are really in for it.
You can tell him, so he is aware of the situation, but chances are he will deny it and tell his girlfriend you are lying and just jealous, so now she is going to make your life hell too.
Basically, you are on your own from here on out. He's not going to leave his girlfriend, and chances are she is not going to leave him either just to prove a point.
Take care of yourself. Get a blood test once the baby is born. But don't expect anything great to come out of this but your baby. Try to make better decision this time around. Your unborn child depends on it.
2007-01-01 13:57:37 · answer #1 · answered by Chica Creole 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Okay, you need to make sure what the deal is........ get an over the counter pregnancy test and find out!!!!!!! If you are pregnant.... the fact that he has a girlfriend DOES NOT MEAN A DAME THING so don't sweat it alone! you did not get pregnant by your self....... If you are pregnant...... regardless of what ever anybody tells you (religion or otherwise) is your decision.
It takes 9 months to have a baby and a life time to nurture.... make sure you are up to the job.... there is NO quitting after 3 months... use your head......good luck with what ever you do.
2007-01-01 14:02:17 · answer #2 · answered by 2u-sister 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You certainly are taking a lot of responsibility in your hands arn't you?....working full time....going to college...that's very helpful for you in the long run...how is your relationship with your boyfriend? Right now it looks like you both have to give much thought on the new born into your lives...it is an added responsibility for both parents and not one....never mind about his other girlfriend....lets deal with you and him first ok? Perhaps now he will focus on you....Talk to him about it and decide.......good luck and hope that everything turns out with your right decisions...
2007-01-01 14:05:49 · answer #3 · answered by singirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure your pregnant?
Are you sure its his?
Are you ready to be a mother?
What do you want him to do?
Don't end up on another Maury, or Jerry show screaming at each other.
Stand up for yourself, know what you want and need for the baby and yourself. Remember you "ex" is not the one for you, the 2 of you were apart for a reason, and now he's cheating on the new GF---do you need that type of drama surrounding a pregnancy?
2007-01-01 14:00:01 · answer #4 · answered by rawalt17 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Are you planning to keep the baby? either way, first find out for sure that you are pregnant, then tell him coz he has the right to know about this. Then you both should come up with some solutions for the two of you.
2007-01-01 13:54:39 · answer #5 · answered by redmouse 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would wait until you know for sure if you are or aren't. If you are pregnant take your ex aside and talk to him alone, and let him know the news and how he could help you out during this
2007-01-01 13:52:17 · answer #6 · answered by Breanna's Mommy 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If he is the father, than he still holds financial responsibility for the child. You should find out for sure if you are pregnant, and then let him know that the child is his.
2007-01-01 13:52:16 · answer #7 · answered by makin_the_same_mistakes 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is I'm really sorry. I think you should get a DNA test when you can. I hope things get better. You need to tell your X to...even though its going to be hard
2007-01-01 13:52:29 · answer #8 · answered by Just living.... 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
it depends on your beliefs. You could be discrete about it and put the baby up for adoption then that way no one is fighting about who gets the baby, etc. You don't break up the relationship and you are not the 'bad guy!' You need to thoroughly think it out and don't go and do anything stupid and careless. Good Luck to you!
2007-01-01 13:53:04 · answer #9 · answered by ilovechocolate75 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Poor girl, do you want to be a mom it is allot of work. If you are not ready I would look into several options.
2007-01-01 14:04:32 · answer #10 · answered by algal04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋