He never speaks to his ex wife while around me and if I ask if he has spoke to her lately he gets mad. I feel he should be able to speak to her when I am around.
2007-01-01 13:47:43 · 9 answers · asked by lizzybit64 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I agree, I seem to have the same problem and when I ask I never get a satisfying answer. But I have got to the point that I don't care anymore. In fact now that I think about it I don't even remember the last time that I asked. But You know what a man should worry about? What does it mean when a woman stops caring? Yep that's the question.
2007-01-01 13:56:11 · answer #1 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do they have kids? Then the answer is - she will always been around.
If they do not have kids, and there is still something going on behind your back, and he gets pissed if you ask an innocent question, I'd have a problem. They split for a reason, but it's too easy for some to fall back into a sexual relationship. It's my opinion it needs to be a clean break to allow everyone to get on with their lives.
I wanted to "be friends" with my ex. But he was wise enough to know that we needed to not stay meshed. We have always been friendly, but not involved in each other's lives. If he'd allowed us to hang out, I'd have never gotten on with my life and a real relationship, and whoever he's with would be resentful of me.
I agree that if he has a relationship that is above board with her, then they should be able to do it in front of you.
My ex is still my doctor, and I took my bf (together a year) with me to get treaments on my knee. It was good because it kept us all on the high road - nobody's demons got the best of them. My bf got to see that my ex and I had good points to our relationship. And my ex got to see that I got on with my life and I now have someone great who loves everything about me, everything he hated.
I hope things go well for y'all.
2007-01-01 14:06:34 · answer #2 · answered by justbeingher 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He should be able to speak to her with you around. The only thing they should have to talk about anyway is if they have kids together.
2007-01-01 13:53:18 · answer #3 · answered by catfan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not unless they have some kind of secret affair going on. If he can't tell you why he has to talk to her in private then he is probably saying stuff he doesn't want you to hear. He should be able to say whatever he has to say to her in fornt of you.
I would figure out whats going on before he ends up back in bed with her.
2007-01-01 14:08:16 · answer #4 · answered by Mom of 4 Sweethearts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only when it pertains to the welfare of their children. What the hell else is there to talk about even with you standing there?
2007-01-01 14:43:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He lives under your roof right? I'd betcha that they have children together.
Hey, if you can't trust him.....what are you doing with him?
Give me a sincere break here. Grow up.
2007-01-01 13:54:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
forget that he shouldnt be doing that even if he had kids with her. I would be confronting about it. For sure.
2007-01-01 14:06:33 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No
2007-01-01 13:58:05 · answer #8 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do they have kids together? if so, I say why not.
but if he talking the dirty, then hell no hell no hell no hell no hell no hell no hell no hell no hell no hell no hell no hell no hell no hell no hell no hell no hell no hell no hell no hell no hell no hell no hell no hell no hell no hell no hell no hell no hell no hell no hell no hell no
2007-01-01 13:51:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋