My man ,well is a hard working man, but I need him sometimes to help me around the house, but he comes off with comments like I am too lazy. Or something like that. How can I get him to pitch in with out me pitching a fitt!
2007-01-01 13:47:09 · 11 answers · asked by ladylily29 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
stop having sex with him. tell him that you would have more enery to give him some if you had some help around the house.
2007-01-01 13:50:32 · answer #1 · answered by PreciousLady 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
a perennial tussle of control & power, do you work? or a full time housewife? you've said that he's a hard working man, may i add bringing home the bacon, comes back after work, or do you prefer that he brings the bacon to the other home and to stay away from you?
2007-01-01 14:11:38 · answer #2 · answered by Dreamweaver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should want to help out around the house because he loves you. it's not the housework, but his love for you that should move him to wanting to do something if you need it. i guess you can't MAKE, but how is it that you're lazy when HE won't help.
love is not just a feeling, but an action.
love moves you to cook for him, if that's true.
to do his laundry, if THAT'S true.
love moves you, ask him when will it move him.
2007-01-01 13:53:06 · answer #3 · answered by Debt Free! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a chore list with points. For every x number of points he gets watch porn with him! If that doesnt work good luck!
2007-01-01 13:58:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it, but I would bribe him with sex, and it that didn't work, i would than hit him where it hurts the most.. his wallet...
Hire someone else to come and do the job until he gets the picture.
Good Luck to you.
2007-01-01 13:50:40 · answer #5 · answered by brit 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sweetheart, is it enought that he has to put out with working every day to buy your mean less crap???? Sweetie, you could also stop nagging his asss all day and he might help you.
2007-01-01 13:50:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats easy. No sex or TV unless he cleans the house.
2007-01-01 13:49:10 · answer #7 · answered by 6th Finger 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sell yourself literally. if you want him to do the laundry, tell him you will let him hit it if he helps with laundry.
men are like puppies, in order for them to do a trick, give em a treat.
2007-01-01 13:49:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I just ask him to help out and he does.
2007-01-01 13:50:17 · answer #9 · answered by catfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck, cuz it ain't gonna happen!!!
2007-01-01 13:49:43 · answer #10 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋