They keep on grounding me and they are wayy too strict. Sometimes i'm not even doing anything wrong. What do i do?
2007-01-01 13:45:10 · 20 answers · asked by Lala 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sometimes they have reasons that they are afraid to tell you about. they might have a problem with the type of people you have chosen for friends and might be trying to protect you from a world of hurt. when we are in teen years we cant see the dangers that are right in front of us, they have had years to develop their gut feelings. I'm not saying their always right but maybe you should talk and really hear what they have to say, and if it is a wrong impression of your friends then ask them to hang out where they can see their OK. if your friends are not they type you want them to meet then you might want to reevaluate hanging with them. you have so many years ahead of you. please try to work things threw with them I'm sure they just want to help teach you something. they are trying the best they can too. i hope all goes well for you hun.
2007-01-01 14:12:36 · answer #1 · answered by lilydew 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to do everything that they ask you to do and the things that you know will have to be done. They may think that you are not mature enough to make certain decisions. But if you show them that you are responsible then they probably give you some freedom. I know this because my parents were just like what you are explaining yours to be. It may also be the people that you would hang-out with, parents know a lot more than we give them credit for.
2007-01-01 21:51:57 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs. Parrish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They ground you for no reason? That's funny because my 14 year old daughter claims the same thing. BUT, normally I have a good reason - she just doesn't happen to think so. There aren't too many choices for you. Don't do the crime, if you can't do the time.
2007-01-01 21:48:33 · answer #3 · answered by Chula 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The more they do that the more you will rebell
and things will get really bad so act with this thought in mind will this get me grounded
that should help
talk to them and let them know it aint cool
2007-01-01 21:52:34 · answer #4 · answered by daview1234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's what parents do.
Take notes, you may well be a parent someday.
Seriously, they are probably worried, even if it's unfounded.
Be glad that they love you enough to be interested, even if it seems like a pain in the behind right now.
2007-01-01 21:48:45 · answer #5 · answered by blue.green_eyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should change your name, "babygurl" That could be part of the prob........you've labeled yourself a baby. Perhaps that's why they treat you as such. I dont mean to be harsh, justa hunch. Ask them to explain WHY they're grounding you. Since you feel that you havent done anything wrong.
2007-01-01 21:51:50 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop eating their cooking, stop wasting their water when you bathe, don't use their bathroom, or their bedroom, or their A/C, or their heat in the winter, or their money to buy necessities that you might need.
When you can do all these thing by yourself, then, and only then can you do something about it. MOVE OUT!!!
2007-01-01 21:50:48 · answer #7 · answered by Ricardo C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha..kids always say that! You may think the things your doing aren't too bad but parents know better. Talk to them..ask them what you should do and why but always remember, it's because they love you too much it scares them to see you grow up fast.
2007-01-01 21:50:18 · answer #8 · answered by islandgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down with them and talk to them. Ask why they keep grounding you, and why they are so strict. Try not to anger them tho, cuz they mite just ground you again.
2007-01-01 21:47:37 · answer #9 · answered by Kangri 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Talk with them about it, and tell them how you feel. They must have their reasons. The only other thing that you can do is move out when you turn 18.
2007-01-01 21:48:03 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋