So she says on her blog that one of her New Years Resolutions was to 1. Not be my Friend.... and her bf says that she hates be and has hated me for like...3 weeks. i find that that totally improbable, becuz during that 3 weeks, we have had....((eh hem eh hem)) 1. 4 sleepovers; 2. went to the movies 2wice;. 3. went to a fair;. 4. went carrolling together...
and i don't even know why she hates me at ALL! like, she had a party last night and she ignored me ((like i thought she would)), and i told her the party was fun except for some parts. and she said tell me what they were, and i said no becuz they'd ruin our friendship. and i did and now she hates me to death. she even wrote it on her blog.
i am seeing a counselor tomorrow, and she is coming too; she just doesn't know yet. :)
so what should i do about this?? i am 13, and 50% of me wants to be her friend again and 50% of me doesn't wanna be her friend anymore. HELP!
2007-01-01 13:14:48 · 3 answers · asked by H A N N A H(: 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
and also, i tried calling and she seemed PO'd to death!
2007-01-01 13:15:17 · update #1
Well, I am 13 too. I am going to say, she probably is upset about something...obviously. It sounds like you two have had some happy times. I think you find a new friend. If you even have to make this question, it is a good indication. She seems to be having a little issue. If she comes back, she is your friend. If you let her go and don't tall her, she will miss you, andwant to be friends with you again. Reverse psychology...
2007-01-01 17:32:36 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try this it worked when i was younger long before everyone had the Internet. just leave her alone. don't talk to her or anything. no instant messages no phone calls text messages no nothing. leave her alone and let her make the first move towards reconciliation. if she wants to be your friend she will come back when shes ready if not she was never truly your friend. make new friends don't let her run or ruin your life be the bigger and more mature person and let it go.
2007-01-02 19:30:41 · answer #2 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe she got a new friend, and that person doesnt like you and that is what is influencing her
2007-01-03 02:14:50 · answer #3 · answered by smokingstonersweetheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋