Well. there is this kid joey and for like a past year now me and him have been talking but we were both in relationships. but now were both out of are relationships and wanna make me and him work. but it is so hard because we both just got out a bad realtionship and both got are hearts broken. and iv been goin threw the whole break upthing for a year now. this just happend to him a couple a months ago and he is so heart broken. exampe. he likes me but wants his x but doesnt wanna show that he wants her. she cheated on him badley and does the same mean things to him as my X boyfriend use to do to me and just come back when I moved on withsomebody..me and him want heachother but are still scared. idk what to do anymore. do we end it till were both emiotionly stable or what?? i hate relaionships
2007-01-01 13:07:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If your afraid, and so is he, then I say, start out real slow. Be friends....it's very easy to be friends with someone, and it will give you both time to get to know each other. There isn't anyone rushing either of you into anything, so just go to a movie together "as friends!" and have dinner together "as friends" and you'll be amazed at how much you'll get to know each other "as friends" then just move into a relationship slowly when you're both comfortable!!
2007-01-01 13:12:59 · answer #1 · answered by reikithree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a possibility that the two of you could help each other through the breakups but if he wants his ex, then don't put yourself in a position to be a replacement for her because he will be looking for her in you and your not her. you will only get hurt. try continuing to be just friends (without any expectations) for a while longer until you two are ready to take that chance again with your hearts. that way, no one gets hurt/
2007-01-01 21:13:50 · answer #2 · answered by PreciousLady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like relationships then why are even asking? You don't want to commit so why do you want advice. Just so you know, you could use use your time a little better than asking for advice on something you hate! That's my advice. ( you okapi!)
That's an animal, so go find out what it is. That's a great use of time for you!!
2007-01-01 21:14:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take it slow and start off as friends and if and when you are both ready. anything more will develop. as friends you can talk about what was brong with both of your relationships and if the friendship develops into more, you will have a very sound base to build upon.
2007-01-01 21:12:39 · answer #4 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is the thing gust take it slow.Do not go fast at all.You do know what I mean about fast?He also might be on the rebound.Try and gust be friends at first then go from there.
2007-01-01 21:23:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋