2007-01-01 12:57:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
alot of people do that until the kids are older, start stashing money in a secret account,
2007-01-01 13:20:42 · answer #1 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't been happy with my marriage for 2 years. She was a homemaker for the first 8 years of our marriage and has only been employed for 1 year. Her career is about to take off soon and now it is the kids that I stay in the relationship for. I do not want to hurt any of them or cause them pain so I suffer silently and pretend that I still want her. I have been seeing another woman, although as of yet, the relationship is not sexual. Every free moment I have is devoted to trying to figure out how I should deal with the situation permanently.
2007-01-01 13:21:06 · answer #2 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tried to stay but in the long run it was not the best thing to do. Now my daughter sees me happy and that the stress of the marriage relationship is no longer affecting my relationship with her. The best thing to do if you can setup a shared parenting so both of you can give the kids the love of both parents. If you can agree on a shared plan maybe you can work with a parenting coordinator to help you guys work out what is really best for the kids.
2007-01-01 13:19:58 · answer #3 · answered by chancesare45 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I feel that is a personal qeustion & no ones business, but no you just hurt the kids more by staying, if your in a bad relationship & always unhappy & fighting the kids can sense that & you just need to leave & be happy
2007-01-01 13:01:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
no no no no no. I would never want my parents to stay together for my sake. Children understand a lot more than parents give them credit for. Although you myay argue behind closed doors, the kids still understand. If you to are better apart, the kids will benefit as well.
2007-01-01 18:25:27 · answer #5 · answered by morena0160@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am happily married, wanna know why?? cause we have no kids. And, I won't have them, so one day if our marriage is bad, kids won't keep with someone I resent. I feel bad for people in bad marriages "just" for the kids.
I would rather be married and keep my fish tank as my kids.
2007-01-01 13:15:32 · answer #6 · answered by godzillasagoodman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am ver unhappy, but my kids mean the world to me. They did not ask to be here, and I think it is my duty to make sure they have everything they need. Including two parents.
2007-01-01 13:44:26 · answer #7 · answered by rjsr40 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no i am very happy in my marriage
but
i would never stay in a bad relationship just for the children
if you are not happy
then your children aren't happy either
hope this helps
2007-01-01 13:04:34 · answer #8 · answered by Bren 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes i think alot of people do, i have two young kids and even though most days i look at my husband and want to leave i dont. Yesterday most of all , no excitement, nothing .
2007-01-01 13:02:28 · answer #9 · answered by Notsogreatlife31 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not married but i would not sacrifice myself for the kids...never ever!
2007-01-01 14:42:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋