have this guy who
s acting pirculiar... there was one occasion.. that while I was talking to him.. he didn't give any eye contact, the entire time we talked , then I noticed he had his hands in his hoodie pocket, he just acted nervous the entire time, then at the end of the
conversation , he asked me how my christmas was...I I told him it was okay..then he asked so who did you spend it with...And I told him just family. Then the next day, I seen him.then later on, he comes up to me and he's like oh..your face..and I asked what about it, he says..you look so sad...and I really don't want to see you like that and he wants to cheer me up and he asked me what I was listening to on my ipod...and he started cracking some jokes...and then he asked me so when will you be back here at the gym again..I told him probably tommorrow..and he was like well I'll be messing with you tommorrow then..so what do you think? Do you think he's flirting or just being cordial? And if so why no asked out
2007-01-01 12:27:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Men usually don't run right up to women and ask them out unless they are drunk or have known them a long time.
Stop acting like you're in heat or you'll scare him. Like any good fisherman you have to wait for the fish to be hooked.
Now go and have fun.
2007-01-01 12:36:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably one of the several men who are basically shy or not self-confident when it comes to members of the opposite sex. He also perhaps had a previous experience of rejection by some girl and wants to tread cautiously now. His family upbringing and background also may affect his behaviour.
It seems he is certainly interested in you. If you dont mind people of this type, then you could encourage him, get to know each other better, and proceed thereafter once he gets over his shyness or fear of rejection with you.
This may take some time and patience but if you really like this guy, the effort may be worth it. Nothing is lost by trying.
2007-01-01 21:50:34 · answer #2 · answered by greenhorn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is interested but is nervous and may be afraid of rejection. He may be trying to get to know you a little more before he asks you out. In the past I used to be pretty shy when it came to talking to someone I was attracted to out of fear of rejection, maybe he has been hurt by someone. If you like him hang in there and give it a chance.
2007-01-01 20:41:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he might be worried about something, or just a little up time lately.
2007-01-01 20:43:08 · answer #4 · answered by Jessie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋