i was engaged to a guy who was the baby in a very disfunctional family. This mans father was and still is an alcoholic, who would go to work everyday and stay out and drink and fight with his now ex-wife all nite. his sister was into drugs so bad that it left her first child mentally and physically handicapped. his brother is an alcoholic and so are 2 of his 3 children, the 3rd i believe is into drugs. his brothers and sisters have all been divorced at least once some twice and he has been married twice. he is very demanding and very controlling with money and he loves to drink beer. his entire thought process revolves around his needs, even sexual satisfaction. He says drinking beer does not make you an alcoholic, i left him because i believe that he is headed to hurt someone. how on earth can he not see that he is repeating the abuse of his father.
2007-01-01 12:13:19 · 4 answers · asked by elliepenelly 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
And what exactly does his being the baby of the family have to do with anything? You lost me.
2007-01-01 12:16:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep walking and do not look back!!
PS I married the baby of the family that ended up to be the over-achiever in the family. You can't always go by the stereotypical image of the "baby".
2007-01-01 12:24:04 · answer #2 · answered by Colette B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very sad. But some people choose not to see. I guess he isn't strong enough yet to face his demons. I'm glad you didn't stick around.
2007-01-01 12:22:59 · answer #3 · answered by rhonda y 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good thing you left . . . and he can't see because he's in denial.
2007-01-01 13:02:50 · answer #4 · answered by Freedspirit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋