My bff has been my friend for 3 years, but lately, ever since I started hanging out with other people besides her, she's been really rude and mean. She started calling me an everybody and I'm really tired of it. She says I'm like everyong else just because I like abercrombie and aeropostale. I mean, it's not my fault if I hate everything from Limited Too because it's covered in rhinestones and glitter, right?? I mean, I love her and all but she's really rude and annoying sometimes. Should I keep her?
2007-01-01 12:08:37 · 11 answers · asked by shop_a_holic993 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She, maybe, is just jealous. Since you're hanging out with other people, she thinks you'll be like neglecting or replacing her. I think, being rude and mean is just her way of making you notice her more. But, of course, that doesn't mean it's okay for her to act all rude. Talk to her and if she's really your friend, she would change and well, go back to being your loving best friend again. :) Try to sort your differences out. I mean, come on. Three years of friendship? It won't hurt (well, maybe a bit) if you try to keep her, you know. :)
Good luck && God bless.
2007-01-01 13:08:05 · answer #1 · answered by Hana 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea you should stay friends, if you are still calling her your bff, then wud u really just let her go just cuz she doesnt like the same clothes as you or have the same friends? My bff and I are complete opposites (clothes, friends music) but just cuz we have different interests, we haven't grown apart. She is probably being that way because you two might just be letting each other grown apart because of the new ppl you're hanging with, and she doesnt appreciate it.
2007-01-01 20:15:32 · answer #2 · answered by hafsa z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um what it sounds like is that person is ensure and if i were u i would be just a friend not a best friend or bff or bffl this same thing happen to me and i love areopostale and my friend said i was werid but i still buy stuff from there
2007-01-01 20:18:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to her about the situation.
You obviously don't love her as much as you say if you can question on dropping her as a friend over this LITTLE speed bump in the road of friendship.
2007-01-01 20:12:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg that sounds exactly like the situation im having with a friend ive known for 3 years...
but anyways if you feel like you still want to be friends with her try talking it over.sometimes friends are mad at each other for a while but over time you'll be friends again
2007-01-01 20:19:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you sit down and talk to her and tell her how you feel? If she is still being rude and mean after, you shouldn't keep her. Friends respects each other's decisions. You deserve better.
2007-01-01 20:14:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes doing this because she is jelous of u. u should just talk to her. if it doesnt work out then stop being her friend.this is a part of life that all friends go through. me and my friends r at the same stage good luck
2007-01-01 20:13:12 · answer #7 · answered by j♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she will realise what she has done wrong if you tell her.
If she says something again then tell your feelings to her and walk off.
If she is a true friend then she will think back to what she's done and apologise.
She isn't worth it if she starts bitching about you and doesn't apologise at all.
2007-01-01 20:13:56 · answer #8 · answered by Choco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell he what u r telling me.. its not ur fault.. && sometimes to see if she is really ur bff u have to test the limits.. so tell her this.. && tell her how u feel. u have a right to hang out with whoever you want. okay.. hope it goes well
2007-01-01 20:30:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to her about the situation.
2007-01-01 20:15:36 · answer #10 · answered by Pramod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋