I have been with this guy for year and half we have lived togather for about year and 3 months! Anyhow im 22 & he is 25! He had been unemployed since Aug 2006! And he really isnt looking either! So far im paying for all my bills plus food ect! Im even paying for my engadment ring!!! We never have sex anymore he never cuddles or talks to me anymore! It seems like he very careless when it comes are relationship ! And he wont talk to me about it or anything! And when I confront on him on things he just gets all mad starts yelling at me! I have worked at my job for over 2 years ! Im very successful & I have tried in so many ways to help him but he wont take my help! What really really hurt was last night being new years and all! I worked 10 hours yesterday and we watched the ball drop on tv! When it dropped everyone on tv and proboly in the world got kissed not me! When I asked him about he said he forgot! How could 4get when everyone on tv is doing it! Im soo hurt need some advice help!!!
2007-01-01 12:07:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
your a smart young lady, have a good job, a bright future, want what normal girls do, but your with a man who can't hold a job, who expects u to pay for everything, u need to get out of the relationship with this man, or marry him and suffer because u made the wrong choice. we must always be careful who we associate with, as they can easily pull us down to their level. don't allow yourself to be treated this way or used anymore, if he had any self respect or respect for u, he would not do u this way. u need the right man and the right environment to secede in life. and u have a responsibility to yourself not to allow someone to treat u with so much disrespect.
2007-01-01 12:23:41 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok 1. if you are a successful woman then u need to find u a successful man. he should not sit around UR house and do nothing. it is just wrong. if u pay for the bills and everything and he doesnt but yet he eats, sleeps, take showers, and uses ur electricity and doesnt help pay for it all then he needs to get lost... and about the sex that is not that is all in a relationship maybe he doesnt want it or something. he is just stupid! and the new years thing well i didnt get kissed by my man either... so we are right there together!
i am so sorry that u are going through all this crap with him... if i was u i would leave the man... it is wrong that he does u that way... if i was u i would take him to small claims court for him not paying for any of the bills. he does live there and uses ur stuff.. he needs to pay for it.....
hope u get through this and u end up happy at the end...
love sd
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2007-01-01 12:28:09 · answer #2 · answered by alycat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to know that sex is different from relationship. you could have a good sex with someone which does not mean that is a good relationship. Take for example prostitutes. A prostitute have sex because she wants the cash and the two may enjoy the sex but over time she will become psychologically broken because she might not find love. I would prefer both depending on my situation or the lady situation being a guy. If my relationship breaks down, and until I can find someone reliable then I can have a casual great sex with any babe who only wants sex and does not want a relationship probably her partner might had gone to Irag to fight.
2016-05-23 04:25:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh this sounds like my marriage to a tee..I could have written this myself! My husband was unemployed for soooo long and is always between jobs and I work full time all the time plus overtime. I buy the food, pay the rent/bills and he takes money from me to go out on his own! My man fell asleep before the ball dropped on tv and then yelled at me when i complained about the noisy neighbors upstairs! I know how you feel..it hurts inside. I don't know what to tell you cuz i don't know what to tell myself. If we put up with it it will never end. It is new years lets take a stand! Good luck to you (and me).
2007-01-01 12:28:51 · answer #4 · answered by Samantha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just doesn't seem like he's cares much or maybe he's has taken you for granted or maybe he is comfortable. Only you would know, you figure whats in your heart and he really needs to get a job that will chase you away not that forgotten kiss, but I do understand I would feel the same
2007-01-01 12:18:18 · answer #5 · answered by Smile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so glad he has no interest in sex cuz you can't get pregnant by him.
Put him out.
You are not very successful despite what you say because you have such low standards in men. Something must be wrong with your self esteem if you are willing to tolerate a bum.
2007-01-01 12:12:02 · answer #6 · answered by adamsjrcn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would seriously reconsider marrying this person. Never go deeper into a relationship thinking people will change because they wont. you deserve better. it would just hurt you more to marry him and then find out that he is gonna be that way for the rest of your life and then you will have to put yourself through a divorce . find someone better
2007-01-01 12:12:33 · answer #7 · answered by tarahabear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fuggetaboutet.
2007-01-01 12:12:34 · answer #8 · answered by Yea Yea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in the same kind of relationship.. my g/f never kisses me first, has never ever bought me a card, present, wrote me a note to say she loves me, gets drunk to have sex with me, did not even give me a card on christmas, but gave her grown daughter one in front of me, but says she loves me and i need to give her more time. i just want a woman who is not afraid of making the first move either in the romance department or in the sex department and will occassionally give me some sort of things like a card, note, etc...
2007-01-01 12:15:05 · answer #9 · answered by keithy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What are you doing with the loser? Have you no self esteem?
2007-01-01 12:10:55 · answer #10 · answered by linka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋