I am a masculine, successful man but always seem to be attracted to the bad boy type. When I meet someone with their sh*t together I get bored after awhile. How do I break that trend?
2007-01-01 12:04:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Get a dog. They are better company and more loyal than any loser that you might allow in your life.
2007-01-01 12:06:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hmm... there can be many reasons why. first of all do you really want a boyfriend as an equal? Some one that is as smart as you are? as successful as you are? Or do you always want the uppper hand? Do you want to be the one that makes the decisions pays for the meals bails the "bad boy" out of trouble? or is it just the sex? I agree from dating the bad boys that it is exciting... i will not deny that. However as you are finding out they don't make good boyfriends either. They don't want to settle down and have a loving relationship. Until you decide what you want in a boyfriend instead of a sex partner you will not break your trend. I thought I wanted a certain kind of guy for a boyfriend. It took me a long time and dating many losers before I found out what I may think I like in a guy and what that means to a future with that guy are very different. I like a guys don't care attitude and secretive ways also turned out to mean he was cheating on me and several others male and female both. well and ect ect. Your not settling by changing what you are attracted to. Your making a smart choice in your life. There are a lot of sexy attractive men that have a great job, a college education, thier own car, thier own life. You just have to ask yourself can you handle that also, that they really don't need you. they will want to be with you cause of how nice and smart you are and how much you mean to them, not because your picking up the tab at dinner and the bar for the next 2 weeks. Bad boys don't have money. =).... Well I know i kind of went off there I may be wrong but maybe this line of questions and answers will help you figure out your own way. Input is good from all angles and you decipher the best taking a little from each to make your whole. Good luck!
2007-01-02 02:50:09 · answer #2 · answered by qcdon30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, attraction is relative..
what attracts you may not attract me..
i guess if you found someone you truly love, the "trend" will break itself.. =)
2007-01-02 01:41:11 · answer #3 · answered by mystery moo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its because you like filthy hot co@k and love to be treated like the dirty whore you are!!!
2007-01-02 23:19:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋