I don't necessarily think it is.
2007-01-01 11:54:55 · 15 answers · asked by Kj 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'm 14 :\ y/o ............
2007-01-01 11:57:14 · update #1
No it's not. It's only when you start thinking about what you'd like to do with that handsome guy that gayness comes into it.
2007-01-01 12:02:19 · answer #1 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
No, it is not gay. Men compare themselves with each other all of the time, and one of the things they notice is handsomeness, no matter what their personal sexual orientation is. Whoever is telling you otherwise is homophobic and probably has not lived that long to know how men really are.
I would not say that directly to a man though, unless he is a friend and he needs a pick-me-up if he is feeling down about a failed relationship and the like and he is moving on. Do guys say it to each other though, about other men not part of the conversation? They do it all of the time, especially if the guy is successful with the ladies.
2007-01-01 20:09:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most straight guys think it's gay to notice another guy is good looking. So you might want to be careful about telling men that you think they're good looking! Some guys may take offense.
2007-01-01 20:05:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think so either. Appreciating beauty is a good thing; it doesn't matter which sex. But if it goes on to a fantasizing phase, that would be seen as gay.
2007-01-01 20:10:25 · answer #4 · answered by Silver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An individual of one gender admitting and recognizing that another of the same gender is good looking does not mean that individual is homosexual. If the individual is sexually or romantically attracted to another of the same gender, than yes, this individual is most likely homosexual.
2007-01-01 20:07:12 · answer #5 · answered by Earnesty_in_life 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Acknowledging that a guy is handsome is not being gay. Being sexually and/or romantically drawn to a guy is.
2007-01-01 19:58:43 · answer #6 · answered by castle h 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well there is a difference between acknowledging someone's good looks and beeing attracted to him... But homophobia's gay! ;-)
2007-01-01 20:00:04 · answer #7 · answered by Cortu 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no, thinking a guy is handsome is not gay. WHEN YOU FIRST HAVE SEX WITH A MAN, IT IS!
2007-01-01 19:59:39 · answer #8 · answered by ¡El lobo del norte del fuego! 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not at all. It's a good thing to be secure in your sexuality to notice things like that. I'm a lesbian but i can still look at men and think 'he's cute'. I may be a lesbian but i'm not blind you know what i mean??
2007-01-01 20:01:20 · answer #9 · answered by Lea 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
2007-01-01 20:00:21 · answer #10 · answered by Eva 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋