Please if your homophobic dont even bother trying to answer.
2007-01-01 11:42:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Why would it be?
Bisexuals are NOT:
1) Greedy.
2) Confused.
3) In a 'phase'.
4) Indecisive.
5) Horny or sex-addicted or nympomaniacal.
6) People who want to have their cake and eat it, too.
7) Necessarily polyamorous or in open relationships.
8) Commitment-phobic or unfaithful.
9) Really gay or straight and in denial.
10) Really gay or straight but getting perks/avoiding condemnation by being bisexual.
11) Necessarily into group sex.
12) Necessarily equally split in their love of each sex.
13) Necessarily experienced with both sexes in order to call ourselves 'bisexual'.
14) The spreaders of disease from the gay community to straight.
15) When it all boils down to it, any different from you or I.
That means that everything that could possibly be bad about dating somone- that they might leave you for another person, that they might want to have an 'open relationship', that they might feel unsatisfied with you, that they would want a threesome, that they might give you an STD, etc., etc., etc.- are risks with bisexuals. AND THEY'RE RISKS WITH EVERYONE ELSE, TOO!
I don't know how much I can stress this to people. Unclefrun has it right- don't buy into biphobic stereotypes, and treat this guy like a person. If you want to better understand his bisexuality and how it will affect you and your relationship, talk to him, okay? Because every bisexual is different, and because your guy isn't just a nameless bisexual, he's a person who deserves better.
Good luck.
2007-01-01 21:04:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think that there is nothing wrong with this. However, I would think about the possibility of having a long term relationship with a bisexual person. Probably that I see is that you are never going to be able to satisfy the other person 100%. If you are a female with a bisexual guy, then you are never going to be able to fill the void that a male companion would. You might be able to think of something creative to satisfy the sexual part.
2007-01-01 12:01:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because there's a whole broader universe of people he could potentially cheat on you with. With a straight guy, you only have to worry about him cheating with straight and bisexual women. With a bisexual guy, he can cheat with straight women, bisexual women, gay men and bisexual men.
Also, if he's in denial about his bisexuality, he might have unprotected sex with those men (because to some down low guys, if they use a condom, it reminds them that they're about to have sex with a man) so he might expose you to all kinds of STDs - including the lethal one, HIV.
So I would advise against dating a bisexual man.
2007-01-01 12:02:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It can be risky. I dated a bi-sexual boy & he told me that he would probably end up being gay when he got older. That was what I wanted to hear...not. But, it honestly depends. Some boys are bisexual, but they want actual relationships with girls, just fooling around with guys.
2007-01-01 12:03:20 · answer #4 · answered by kel;sea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Why does everyone think bi people will always cheat? I'm bi and I've been cheated on before but I've never cheated. A bi person is just as likely to be a good person to date as a straight or gay person. He may or may not be right for you, but it's about his personality not his sexuality.
2007-01-01 13:23:04 · answer #5 · answered by Rageling 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No homophobia - but biphobia's okay? What's with this question are bisexuals: untrustworthy, disease-ridden (disease-spreading), relationship-shy ne'erdowells who'll just vamoose at the first sign of trouble - or if they can't convince you to join them in a 3some with another?
Let me put it another way, if your sexual orientation is compatible (which for bi-folk is a given) with the guy, you like him and he likes you then that's on what you found your relationship. None of the above has to be true (nor is it likely to be).
2007-01-01 12:00:26 · answer #6 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If it comes down to sex, protection would be the key word. (no matter their/your sexual orientation) Bisexual implies male homosexual contact has occurred and puts the bisexual in a higher risk group for STDs like HIV and hepatitis strains.
For a LTR the arrangement may suffer as homosexuals tend to have different priorities in their lives than do heterosexuals. Bisexuality is considered a state of sexual confusion with attachment issues.
2007-01-01 11:47:09 · answer #7 · answered by ©2009 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
That is a question that only you can answer. Just make sure that you know the possible health risks involved. Hopefully this man practices safe sexual practices.
You may also find the following website interesting;
http://www.menstuff.org/issues/byissue/bisexuality.html
Take care
2007-01-01 12:09:56 · answer #8 · answered by Mary R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it's bad because You will not be the sole focus of his attention. Things may start out good but eventually his interests will shift to another. I'm sorry to be so down on this idea, but I really feel like you should know the truth.
2007-01-01 11:46:40 · answer #9 · answered by Paul Namie 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I try to keep myself open-minded, but at the same time, I'm not sure if I'd date a bi guy. I mean, as friends, yeah, they're cool, but ....
I have this deadly fear of dating a bi guy who turns around and leaves me for/cheats on me with a girl. That thought scares the crap out of me for some reason. I think I could eventually get over it if he had cheated on me with another guy, but I think it'd torture me for the rest of my life if he had cheated on me with a chick.
But I wouldn't knock it until I've tried it, and you shouldn't either. Loves,
~!*Mr. Izzy Fabulous*!~
2007-01-01 11:54:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋