(samefriend as the one who's parents fight)once my friend was in a concert.she called me crying her eyes out saying that her stepdad said that if her real dad comes she cant go 2 the concert. but if her dad doesnt come then she could go 2 the concert. but she couldnt tell her dad 2 come b/c she has a lil sis and her stepdad was going 2 go watch her 2. (they live in an aptment) (super) he tells her that she has 2 sweep all the floors and then she has to mop them. then when she's done no matter what time it is she has 2 go 2 sleep. she doest have time 2 do her h/w and then when she gets in trouble in school he gets mad. (when it's his own fault). then on halloween i went 2 her house we had 2 wait until 5 so her stepdad could talk with her mom. then she asked what time she had 2 be home by and he said 6. she told her mom and she started 2 yell. (not at her)then he said "if u get back later than 6 u & ur mother have 2 leave the house. she's 2 scared 2 tell the skool. ???? =/ he threatens 2
2007-01-01 11:24:45 · 15 answers · asked by N!V3A Ü 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you need to let the police know. it could get very serious i would go or call the police. i had a friend that went through the same thing. so i went to the police and told them and they took care of it.
2007-01-01 11:34:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like spousal abuse and there are laws in place to deal with this type of thing.
This guy is a bully and needs to be taken down a peg or two.
She HAS to tell someone otherwise this will just get a LOT worse than it already is.
My honest suggestion is to get the hell away from this man as soon as possible. Your friends mother is scared of him and that is no way to have a relationship.
It is going to get worse before it gets better, but if they leave it, it will be ten times as bad!
Tell the school, you do it if your friend is scared, Perhaps you and your friend can do this together.
Or social services. They have qualified and experienced people who will know exactly what to do.
Good luck.
2007-01-01 11:31:56 · answer #2 · answered by Moorglademover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All she knows about you is that you were involved with the marijuana incident. I can see why she'd think you weren't the best influence. I'm sure he's not allowed to associate with the other two people involved in that either. She's just trying to keep him out of trouble by keeping him away from people that are involved with drugs. All you can try and do is sit down and have a mature conversation with her about it. That's the only way you might earn her trust and respect back.
2016-05-23 04:16:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What her dad is doing is called abuse! Tell her that she needs to tell someone! No child should be in this amount of pain. You seem likea pre teen or a teen and you should have fun. If she wont tell YOU tell. She might get mad but think about how hard this much be for her. Call family services or a school teacher of hers or adults intill someone helps. Tell her and convince her to tell if it happens again.
2007-01-01 11:34:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to talk to her mom ans they need to find some place to go. If her mom doesn't want to leave she needs to ask her real dad if she can live with him. If she hasn't already she needs to tell her real dad. And she could try telling the school. I think he will get worse if no one steps in.
2007-01-01 11:31:59 · answer #5 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend need to speak to her father and let him talk to her mother about this situation as it does not sound good for two girls to be living in the same house with this man.
2007-01-01 11:29:43 · answer #6 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is a jerk. You can help your friend by getting her an adult she is willing to talk to. I assume that her mother isn't much help since she knows what is going on. Maybe she could tell her real dad what is going on.
2007-01-01 11:28:37 · answer #7 · answered by erica_m16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you and her have to start asking and praying that GOD help her stepdad
ssecond she has to have atime of break with her self and tell her mind (in all of her own life there is something good and something bad) tell her to make
the bad thing(bearing her stepdad and obey him)
the good thing(you , her mother, open her mind to new things:sports,reading science,walking every day releases all ideas out of brain. always talk to her without loading on her each time she feels sad: tell her to make something new, go out, visit friends, bring her abeautiful present she . this will replace sadness in her mind by your present
remember Always tell her NEW,BEAUTIFUL ,REASONABLE TALK no thing else if you want more get me at man_mom_mon@yahoo.com
2007-01-01 11:37:23 · answer #8 · answered by man m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey that is child abuse. Go to a trusted teacher at school and tell them this. tell your parents. Is there a cop in school ? Go to them. She has a right to a childhood and you have to do homework to get a education! God bless yoiu! Your freind is Blessed to have a real friend like you who cares!!
2007-01-01 11:36:23 · answer #9 · answered by tennessee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless the stepdad is abusing her either physically, or verbally there is nothing you can do for your friend except to be supportive of her.
Encourage her to go to the school councellor if there is one available.
2007-01-01 11:30:57 · answer #10 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋