I have seen it many times where women will overlook a guy who will love and respect them for who they are. and who will take a bullet or the blame for them. but they shrug them off and go after the guy that verbally and physically abuses them. Never spends time with them. or treats them to a nice dinner. Why is this? Even if the nice guy is a good looking guy he still cannot seem to get the girl. This really confuses me.
2007-01-01 11:18:16 · 15 answers · asked by Nate2007 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
why are the nice, sweet men always attracted to the beautiful, but heartless bit*ches? maybe if they would look around, they'd find a nice, kind girl that would return their love.
2007-01-01 11:21:05 · answer #1 · answered by Gabrielle 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Simple: nice guys have no backbone. They're subservient to the whims and opinions of others; they're more worried about maintaining comfort and security and less about achieving and leading their own life, making their own path. In many ways, they're more similar to women. And if women were attracted to feminine qualities, they'd be lesbians. "Jerks" on the other hand, are strong-minded, independent, don't care what others think, and could care less about "security" and "comfort" and maintaining the status quo. They're leaders, at least of their own lives. The guys who will "take a bullet" for them are guys who have no sense of self. They're willing to take a bullet for someone ELSE cuz they assume that's how they'll find the happiness to fill up the hole inside them. That's not a woman's job, and a "jerk" knows this. He takes care of himself, so a woman with him doesn't NEED to make him feel "special" or all that crap; he takes care of that on his own. "Nice" guys only feel "special" if a woman is nice back to them. In other words, "nice" guys are still looking for mommy, not an independent woman. How unattractive can you get? The guy who "spends time" with the woman and "treats" her to a nice dinner most likely does so way too much cuz he feels like he has nothing to offer her other than kissing her ***, paying for things and succumbing to her every whim. The "jerk" knows women deep down don't feel anything for this, and he does what he wants, and allows her to follow if she wants.
Class dismissed.
2007-01-02 08:08:26 · answer #2 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They want to domesticate a badboy. Take a rough stone and make their own diamond bent to her will. Nice isn't exciting enough. The best that I can figure is that the nastiness and agressiveness appeals to the primative cave dweller inside that wants things done to and for. The sad notion that strength has to be an overt display of 'jerk-ish' behavior.
2007-01-01 11:25:21 · answer #3 · answered by vaughndhume 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just wait till the nice guy gets some money or the woman gets a little older and adds a few pounds things tend to even out
2007-01-01 11:25:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Because they want to get humped by night club bouncers 2 at a time until they are 25-30, THEN after they've had 60 apes run their coc ks through them, that's when they go looking for a nice guy to start a family with.
Happy New Year Everyone!!!!
2007-01-01 11:24:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
This is some/many women's part of puzzle when creating the male chauvinist pig. I am educating both men and women on this. Women: you must do a brain implant on yourself. Those bad guys make both awful husbands and fathers. If you want to be happy, marry someone who is kind and respectful to you. Take out that part of your brain that wants the bad guy and implant that you love the good guy. I did and so can you. It yielded me the most wonderful guy , better than I could have imagined.
Now for Men: Thanks to the nice guys out there. Be patient, not all of us are mindless bimbos looking for bad boys. But you pig men: what out! You are becoming as extinct as the Tiger and Lion as it runs out of prey.....more and more women are no longer putting up with your tactics!
2007-01-01 11:48:01 · answer #6 · answered by Greanwitch 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Women love to "fix" things. They are looking for someone that they can be wild with but change at the same time. Guys do the same thing...they go for the bimbos.
2007-01-01 11:45:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I just think its because alot of women in today's world think that the nicer the guy the bigger the loser and the tougher and what they call " more confedential guy " the bigger the guy is to them. i have no idea how or why some of them think that way but you know.... i dont really think that way at all! guys wont treat ME like that!
2007-01-01 11:44:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hun, to be honest not each and every woman likes "undesirable adult men". i actual am really shy, so i'd truly have a effective guy who respects me and makes me snigger. effective adult men at the instantaneous are not boring. truth be recommended i does not experience comfortable with a nasty guy besides.
2016-10-16 22:57:09 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has alot to do with their self esteem. I think alot of them feel like they don't deserve to be respected and admired and they're probably right. Some might say it's their nurturing insticts that attract them to guys who need "fixed" but I think they just want to be bent over and spanked.
2007-01-01 11:23:52 · answer #10 · answered by booger 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋