we broke up after 4 1/2 years, and we live in an apt together what should i do?
2007-01-01 11:07:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm sorry. That is really rough. Do anything you can to get out of the apartment. If you sit around there too long you will just be miserable. Dive into your hobbies, if you don't have any, find some new ones. If you try to keep yourself busy, there won't be time to think about him. It's really hard. I'm sure you are torn from it all. If you have some extra cash stashed away, maybe you could take some and buy yourself something nice with it. Call up your friends, and tell them how you are feeling. It's okay to seem a little needy right now, you lived with him and were together for a long time.
Take care. I'm sorry :(
2007-01-01 11:19:26 · answer #1 · answered by confused soul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to start thinking about who is going stay in the apt. If you stay, start packing his things and have them ready. If you are going to be the one that moves out, Start looking for a place right away, if you hang out there you know you will be torturing your self.And while you are looking for a place start packing it takes a long time to pack 4 years worth of stuff.
2007-01-01 11:16:34 · answer #2 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend as much time as possible somewhere else. As long as he's around you're going to stress out.
2007-01-01 11:09:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
either leave yourself or put him out but until you all decide which is going try to stay away from each other good luck
2007-01-01 11:15:04 · answer #4 · answered by B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move immediately, and get on with your life.
2007-01-01 11:14:34 · answer #5 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spend as much time as you can some where else
2007-01-01 11:14:24 · answer #6 · answered by j.deppfann<33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either you get out or he does
2007-01-01 11:17:39 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be civil. You won't regret it.
2007-01-01 21:52:40 · answer #8 · answered by Bullwinkle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋