to all bi-girls?

Question

My girlfriend is bi-curious. she keeps going on how much she wants to try it....she is very pretty and attractive. she wont have a probolem in finding a girl ! and thats the problem...i want her to be loyal to me.

i told her i didnt want her to have sex with another person. she said ok.

do you think she will go and find a girl ? is this bi-curious feelings like drug addiction ? wil she definately cheat on me ?

Answer 1

I'm bisexual, and belive me- whether or not she's monogamous or polyamorous has nothing to do with her sexuality. If she's going to cheat on you, it will have to do with her personality and her convictions (or lack of willpower), just like any other person who happens to cheat, be they gay or straight, male or female. There are many, many, many monogamous bisexuals, and the bi-curious feeling isn't 'like a drug addiction'. Some people do, indeed, feel such pressure and curiosity that they feel they have to try it, others don't at all. It depends on the person. You know her best, far better than I do- you have to trust her, or even better, talk to her.

All I can say is that her bisexuality/bi-curiosity makes nothing definite. She might cheat, she might stay faithful. Whether or not she's lying to you when she says she'll be faithful, I can't say. For your sake, I hope she's telling the truth. But again- talk to her and try to understand her feelings, and then share yours. Communication is the best way to understand one another, and potentially the best way to get her to realize why you don't want her to do this, and help her see why she shouldn't for your sake.

Good luck.

Answer 2

well i cannot answer that for her..

i guess you just have to trust her answer that she would stay loyal to you.. i hope she would..