and if so, do you wish you had waited a little bit longer to find someone else?
2007-01-01 10:42:22 · 16 answers · asked by Jae Lynn 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Everyone looks, only mature people know the difference between looking and lusting. And only trash act on it. Keep what you got if its good, if it isn't then break up before you even start looking for someone new.
2007-01-01 10:45:57 · answer #1 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think of it going astray because my partner knows about it. He has even talked to the person and met him. It is a mutual agreement.
Have you ever tried swinging? I never had until recently. My boyfriend and I have both grown so much closer and love each other much more because of it. We only have swapped partners in the same room so far with couples that we met on a swinger site that are drug and disease free.
It is a way to fulfill fantasies as well as urges to be with someone else, and your partner being right there with you (at least for me) is a big turn on. Some guys even like to watch. I know my boyfriend likes to watch me with another guy. He knows it is HIM I love and HIM I want more than anyone else!! You have to be very secure in your relationship before you do this, but it could spice up your relationship and make it so much better!
check out http://www.swinglifestyle.com
that is the site we use and it has been great fun.
I hope you get the answer you are looking for if mine isn't what you want.
2007-01-01 10:55:56 · answer #2 · answered by foreverdark2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never, the grass isn't always greener on the other side. I don't even pay men attention like that for real.
Honestly, I think that if someone sees someone that is cuter than the one you are with and you feel like going astray then you don't deserve the person you are with. I think that maybe you should be by your self and discover what you truly want in your partner. Its not fair for him/her if you are still looking then that means you haven't found that person for you. (even if you are just dating!!!)
2007-01-01 10:52:04 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. Edwards 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter how long or how much you love your partner you will always think about being with someone else the key is not giving in because as soon as you do you can practically say good bye to your partner
2007-01-01 10:47:20 · answer #4 · answered by ...yoU knOw u nEed Me baYbeE... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know guys that are fine and when I was dating my boyfriend yeah I thought about leaving him for some other guy. I realize what I had I was not going to mess that up. There is always going to be guy that looks better than the one you have. You have to decided do you want play the field or do you want a relationship? Here something to think about it woman that look better than you and you boyfriend is with you. It okay to have these thought I had them when I was dating my husband. You have to decide want you want and if you want to explore then spread your wings. Do not jerk your boyfriend around having him think that you want him when rather be hooking up.
2007-01-01 10:57:06 · answer #5 · answered by Disha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No and no. Looks aren't all that matters, therefore seeing a handsome man doesn't affect me.
I am 20yrs old, and married. Many people tell me I should have "played the field" longer, but I am perfectly happy with my husband, and cannot see myself desiring anyone else.
2007-01-01 10:45:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is human nature to look at others, it is how you look at them and what your thoughts are, do you look at him to admire him or do you look at him and your first thought is to the bedroom?
I always tell myself that if I ever stop looking I will be dead. It's what I do w/the other part of your question, no I do not stray nor do I wish I had waited, I love my partner and he is my life. Hope this helps..
2007-01-01 10:49:08 · answer #7 · answered by turtledove264 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of partner? If you're married then I don't think it's okay to just look at someone and think you should go after him. But, if you're dating him then by all means you should try other guys. Your boyfriend is probably a loser anyway.
2007-01-01 10:45:06 · answer #8 · answered by DJ Deep 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if U r looking around then U r not completely satisfied....
it is OK 2 appreciate other people...
it is not OK 2 disrespect Ur self or Ur relationship...
if u want more u r allowed 2 change Ur mind ;)
good luck.
2007-01-01 10:59:29 · answer #9 · answered by katwaxr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is perfectly natural to find other people attractive, but it sounds like you are not ready for a relationship right now.
2007-01-01 10:47:01 · answer #10 · answered by darrellkern 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋