He got huffy that I wanted to go out with friends New Years Eve. He didn't like the idea that he would come home from work to an empty house. So I stayed home alone with him and he went to bed at 8:30 since he had to get up at 3:30am to work. I woke him up a little before midnight and when midnight came he just says Happy New Year and tried to sleep again. I had to remind him to kiss me. How would you feel about that?
2007-01-01 10:42:13 · 11 answers · asked by sweet 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yes, you are over reacting. its just another day. my question to you is just how does he treat you the rest of the year. does he love you, if he does then loves him back, your suppose to be on the same side.
2007-01-01 10:50:11 · answer #1 · answered by johnmiriani@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was you i woulden't of woken him up I would of eather left a note or rang him through the day and said Happy New Year and kissed him when he came home. So yes you are over reacting a little bit. Your husband had a good exuse If I had to get up at that time I would of done the same. Would you?
2007-01-01 18:57:03 · answer #2 · answered by lisa o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband is obviously working like a dog to support his family - sounds like you should actually respect him for that. Who cares about New Years Eve anyway. Does it matter that he wasn't awake at the exact moment? I suspect he got "huffy" because he wanted to spend time with you even though he needed to go to sleep early.
2007-01-01 18:52:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the work schedule didn't work well with New Years. What did you expect him to do, stay up and get 3 hours of sleep? At the same time he should have been open to you going out. You guys gotta communicate better.
2007-01-01 18:45:43 · answer #4 · answered by The Scorpion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for times like this you need a compromise. you could have stayed home until, say 9 pm, when he should be getting to bed. then you could have gone with your friends for the night. make an early dinner and you two celebrate when you can. i had to work until 5 pm yesterday, so that left my hubby to spend time with who he wanted, as long as we were together later. talk about it, it really works....
2007-01-01 19:24:45 · answer #5 · answered by yvette b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a break, He was sleeping. He had to get up at 3:30 a.m. Why don't you try it to see how awake and wanting to kiss you are?
2007-01-01 18:46:26 · answer #6 · answered by mamabear 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He had work at 3:30am. Why the hell would you wake him up? Do you not like how he makes money to support you? Get a life.
2007-01-01 18:46:27 · answer #7 · answered by DJ Deep 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He needs sleep. Don't worry. He needs to work also. New year is just another day of work for him.
2007-01-01 18:47:12 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you made a sacrifice why couldn't he make one and actually kiss you and let you enjoy a holiday or event he clearly knows you enjoy...I do not thinking you are overreacting at all...
2007-01-01 18:45:35 · answer #9 · answered by ...yoU knOw u nEed Me baYbeE... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from what you said, he soudns kiind of inconsiderite not letting you go out w/ your freinds just to be stuck home w/ him sleeping. but maybe he wants to be with you but his work is just a lot.
2007-01-01 18:50:57 · answer #10 · answered by lindsay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋