How do I be "cool"?

Question

I'm in 6th grade. Everybody treats my like crap and it pisses me off.

Be yourself. Be nice. And show people how "cool" you are by being the nicest you can be. I had a sucky 6th grade too. But I love myself for who I am. Don't care for what others think.

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I bet you didn't get called dickweed...

Answer 1

From your question I can tell that you aren't cool and there is little prospect of that changing. Who cares - the cool 6th graders of today may be the dead beat losers of the future.

Answer 2

Be yourself. Be nice. And show people how "cool" you are by being the nicest you can be. I had a sucky 6th grade too. But I love myself for who I am. Don't care for what others think.

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Answer 3

Dont ever be anything that your not. Have 1 good friend than beign friends with a bunch. When i was about your age people made fun of me because i didnt have a dad and my mom was kinda a pack rat. Then I hung out with the wrong crowd. Started doing drugs, drinking, hanging out with older people, all at the age 12. I eventually around 9th grade after i got over my addiction, I became friends with the whole school but i was still hanging out with the older people. It was very lonely. I would go home knowing that my only true friends were lost back in time because i just wanted to be cool. Well ends up i got pregnant on my 15 birthday party, had the baby at the starting of school and had to quit. And my father made me move to alaska with him. Now i have practically no friends that i can talk to, only on the phone. My babys doing awesome and i love her but i reallly wish i could go back and be myself and not lie.. So...... Just be yourself and if worst happens tell a teacher or police. If people are being to mean..

Answer 4

Hey man. I went through that whole thing. Exactly in 6th grade too. I tried hanging out with all the cool kids. I tried being like them. I tried to be funny and make jokes but my jokes were always crap. They hated me. They always made fun of me. I thought I was friends with this one kid but this other person who hated me always told me that that kid i thought i was friends with hated me too and that i should stop stalking him. I felt horrible. Meanwhile i asked out four girls and got rejected each time. I was becoming delusional. At night before I fell asleep I would always wish that the next morning I would wake up either popular, or as somebody else who is popular. I almost believed it could happen too! That's how bad it was. I wasn't called dickweed, but I've had stuff just as bad. The most common was fag.


Anyway... All I did was get away from those kids. I started being nice to my friends. I started being nice to a lot of people. Now I was never popular. I never hung out with those kids I tried to hang out with back then. I just hung out with people who liked being around me. And the amount of friends I had grew from there. I am a Freshman in Highschool now and i have tons of friends. I even have a girlfriend!! It's amazing! Just remember. Hang out with people that like you, not assholes who don't.

Hope this helps man! Good luck.

Answer 5

In sixth grade I also was not popular and had many enemies, but in high school I became one of the most popular guys in our school. The secret is self confidence. I know your thinking that that does not help at all but it really does. Walk down the hall and act like there is nothing that can stop you. Be able to talk to anyone in any situation (especially the girls, even if you don’t know them just go over and talk to them) it doesn’t even have to be an important conversation, but don’t talk about you so much as ask about them. Something that helps build self confidence is having a good body. In my case I was overweight and wanted to look good so over the summer I ran and lifted weights and now im ripped. So get out the and get active.

Answer 6

You can't just become "cool." God gave you a personality and he's happy with it so you should be too. Smile and be nice to people, and whatever you do don't try to act like someone you aren't, that's so obvious and you will be treated even worse and have no respect from anyone. Also, people sense a lack of confidence and it opens you up to being treated like that. You don't need to be cool, you need to like yourself.

Answer 7

man, 6th grade was the worst year of my life. it was sooooo hard to fit in, and everyone was striving to be "cool." here's tip #1. don't tell your age over the internet! bad idea. anyways, the ONLY true cool people are the ones that are themselves. they don't care about fitting in, and they float their own boat! once people see that you can take care of yourself, they'll realize the true cool kid. ignore the ones that say they are cool. they aren't cool, and never be like them. every one thinks of cool as a popular blonde haired blue eyed beeyotch. either take my advice or dont! but if i were you, i would print this.

Answer 8

There are "bullies" in every school & evry1, no matter who you are, deals with them at some point. So dont feel about yourself bcuz some jerks feel good about themself by picking on you. It boosts their self esteem and only shows their own insecurities, and i know that might sound lame & you dont wanna hear it but im not saying it bcuz it sounds "good" its really very true. My sister goes thru the same things at her school & it really gets 2 her, which bothers me bcuz she is so beautiful & intelligent & one of a kind. She hasnt completely gotten over it (she's your age) but i can tell you that by ignoring them & not giving them so much attention (which only istigates it) they dont bother her as much as she doesnt let them bother her as much

Answer 9

Well if everybody treats you like crap than do the same to them piss them off than people will wanna be with you.Maybe they dont want to be with you now is becuz ur too easy u wont say nuttin if they treat you badly.

hope i helped

Answer 10

ha. trust me i was one of those kind of kids. but w/e i didnt care cause i had friends. soooo if you have friends just hang w/ them and ingore everyone else and if you dont have friends make some trust me i was one of those people but now im 13 and friends w/ the popular kids but i hate the ones that use to treat me like that. there stupid and act like there better than everyone else just ingore them cause some day youll be better then them and you can go and piss them off.

iik it sucks kid