I mean girls can basicly be a boy but it is freaky for boys to basicly be a girl!
2007-01-01 10:23:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
It is not really very fair is it? Just who decides what is girly & what isn't? Scotsmen wear kilts. Can we take it a step farther and ask why girls can't run around without a shirt (or anything above the waist) and guys can? I mean really, we have the same anatomy (basically), ours just stick out farther! Why is what God gave us considered obscene or offensive? Just a thought!
2007-01-01 10:44:36 · answer #1 · answered by Enchanted Gypsy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Society considers it healthy when girls are happy being girls and boys are happy being boys. When a girl wears pants or any clothes normally associated with boys she does so to be comfortable, and usually still looks like a girl. Many girls will wear boys clothes and look very feminine in them. Normally they are not trying to be a boy.
When a boy wears girls clothes its for the purpose of imiatating a female. He is trying to change himself into a girl. While this can be harmless fun, and even healthy, there is a dark side to cross dressing - - the compulsive cross dresser.
The compulsive cross dresser feels a NEED to wear woman's clothes. When he puts on womens clothes his brain releases a series of neurotransmitters which produce a feeling of well-being, sexual gratification, pleasure and self-identity. He tries harder and harder to achieve a higher "high" - - like drugs, or some other addiction. Eventually he creates a female alter-ego. He gives "her" a name. He even falls in love with his female alter-ego. If he gets married he will want his wife to encourage his cross dressing. His wife soon tires of this and complains that she feels like his second love. If he has children then they are taught to keep daddy's secret or risk the ridicule of their peers. When he's in his 40's the cross dresser will experience a crisis. He will take greater risks with his cross dressing and may consider surgery to look more feminine. He may leave his wife and children to pursue his first love. This is why there is such a problem with men wearing women's clothes.
2007-01-02 04:01:55 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because there is something titillating about obviously female clothing. With guys, it's just shirts, pants, and suits. It may have largely due to the nearly unisex society that we live in. However in the same respect, a guy putting on a dress can get loads more excitement and reactions than a girl who puts on a pantsuit.
2007-01-01 12:00:02 · answer #3 · answered by filia_san 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you don;t get out much,huh?
Boys(some of them) ARE dressing like girls.
2007-01-01 10:30:04 · answer #4 · answered by woundbyte 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋