Different grandparent visitation with married couple that only asked to come to our house if you want to see t

Question

I've been over the rights, paid the lawyer and going to court soon! I want pay back. This was are x-mas present this year. One child has been hurt at there house several times. I know they get hurt, but a broken bone and did not seek med. treatment or even tell us (the parents) about what happen. But as a mom I new something was wrong. Happen again with a hand filled with splinters and still was not told. Last I had a concern with other child and was told not to talk about her church or school and she hung up on me. So I told the bio. grandfather if you want to see them you have to come to are house. And call before you come because he would always just show up! Than something was said to my 13 old niece about her current divorce and mother. He did the same thing to my husband meaning talking to the kids and putting thing in their head. So then we said suppervised so he would not do this to our kids. So now we are waiting on a court date. They wife is not bio. There are 2 other sets of

2 sets of grandparents and our only family time is on the weekend and their girls scouts stuff! many other things I would just like someone to feel my pain and help me feel better!

Answer 1

There comes a time in every parent's life when all they can do is whatever is best for the children. This sounds like one of those times.

The issue is not the rights of the grandparents, biological or not. The issue is what is needed to protect the children. You seem to have made the correct choice. Do not feel bad about this now.

Keep an open mind about the possibility of the rules of visitation changing in the future, but for now stick to your guns. Once the behavior of the grandparents (especially the biological grandfather) changes, then you consider if you can trust them later.

Childhood is a time of innocence and learning. Children need to be nurtured as well as taught. Keep your eyes open and your heart true. This is the only childhood that they will have.

Answer 2

Yea, I know my advice get's old, but when people have lost their mind, you just stay away from them, and in this case keep the kids away from them. I become more and more convinced that there are a certain number of people, who at a certain age just basically lose their mind in the sense that they have no awareness or concern about their interaction with family and even the public. Not sure what you're going to court for but have fun if you can.

Answer 3

well ia mgoing threw kinda of the same thing now and they can only see them if they come to our house they do not like it but we are the parents and it is up to us and if they do not like it just cut off all ties with them till they come around you are the parents not them as long as you and your ex agree there is not much they can do.My parents are not happy but it is now up to them and it has been almost a year and they will not come over just becouse we made the choice we did.but stick to your guns and do not back down expain it all to the kids with yuor ex there so there is no mistake or missunderstandings, Good luck

Answer 4

what do they have visitation rights? don't you talk with your parents? seems like a family couseling should be ordered to try to resolve issues at hand.