When I was 7 years old, a 17 year old guy pressured me into having sex.
Now I'm 14 and i've been having some whitish and brownish stuff in my panties everyday.Also I had skin lesions all over my private area and breasts but no one knows. What should I do? Was i wrong?
2007-01-01 09:43:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Seven-year-old children are not "pressured" into having sex. This was sexual abuse/rape, and it's illegal.
YOU were not wrong at all. You have done absolutely nothing wrong. I sincerely hope that this older guy from your past is no where near you now.
As for getting help...
You're young, and you sound scared and confused. Is there a trustworthy adult (female) you know who can help you find the medical attention you need? If not, PLEASE call your local rape crisis center (look in the phone book), or go here http://www.rainn.org. This is the Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network and you can call their number or get help online. These kind people will be able to talk to you about what happened and to help you find a doctor.
It's hard to overcome feelings of shame and fear, but you're brave for seeking help! Good luck!
2007-01-01 12:23:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A 17 teen year old with a 7 year old would show "he" was in the wrong. Something like that shouldn't be causing problems now, 7 years later. I would get the skin lesions check out though, and soon. You don't have to tell the story unless it becomes relevant.
2007-01-01 18:45:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello I'm a nurse. No dear this isn't your fault, how could it be you were so young at the time. Has this problem just started or have you had this since the age of 7? You definitely need to see a doctor for this. It's hard for me to determine exactly what it could be without looking at it. Schedule an appointment before it goes away, so they can let you know what it is. Also I want to recommend counseling because you have some feelings about this that needs to be sorted out. Take care.
2007-01-01 17:53:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How sad, Dont worry about the pantie stuff, that is just natural, but the lesions - go see a lady doctor about it, that will be easier for you.This 17 year old guy ( who is now 24 ) what is he doing to other young girls now? Maybe that should be looked into.....
2007-01-01 17:54:48 · answer #4 · answered by Yo Mum Mum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didn't do bad and your not wrong, you were and still are young and scared, first you need to tell someone and see a doctor. Do not be ashamed or afraid it wasn't your fault. If you can't tell anyone then at least try to get to a doctor, I know being underage you will need an adult to sign for any treatment though. Just get some help. good luck
2007-01-01 17:47:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anna Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A seven year old cannot be pressured into sex. That is rape! You need to find an adult you trust or call the rape crisis center in your area and tell them exactly what happened and what is going on now. It was not your fault hon, you were but a small child. God bless you. Please call someone to help you.
2007-01-01 18:35:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to tell your parents even though you know that they can prosecute the male party involved. I know that it it'll be hard. And you were too young to be having sex at age 7. That could have caused damage to you vaginal area. So that could be the reason. I'm 13 and have never had sex so that was a bad decision on both of your parts! You both should be tested for an STD. You could have said no and now your life is ruined. Sex is evil!!!
2007-01-01 17:57:57 · answer #7 · answered by *Kirby* 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
the white stuff is normal and the brown stuff to but the other stuff...i dont think so, and no u dont have herpes u would get it a little while after it happend, not 7 yrs.
2007-01-01 17:51:17 · answer #8 · answered by Miss_Michelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The white/brown/clear stuff in your panties is TOTTALY normal. It means you will get your period in a year or so.
The other stuff, don't no what to tell you. sry
2007-01-01 17:47:53 · answer #9 · answered by Dancin' HOTTIE!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See MD at once. Also ask him for a referral for counseling. Best of health and recovery.
2007-01-01 18:25:35 · answer #10 · answered by Shayna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋