my bestfriend just turned 14 and she is 2 months pregnant. she did the right thing and told her parents right when she found out but they did the worst thing & kicked her out in her time of need.
She is my BESTFRIEND ever,and I wanna help her but i dont know how.
also,the babys dad is a drug abuser,and hes only 13 in the 6th grade,and he dropped out of skool. please ppl...WHAT CAN I DO TO HELP MY FRIEND ?!?!
2007-01-01 09:33:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Find another adult that you can confide in. There are many adults at the schools that can help and guide you both in the right direction (counselor, social worker, etc...).
2007-01-01 09:37:12 · answer #1 · answered by jstimson4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh! How horrible! I can't imagine ever turning away my daughter in such a time of need! Help by giving her information on adoption programs (at 14 she's not even old enough for a job to buy formula). Also, go with her to your local State welfare office and see what they can do to help her. They'll be able to tell her where she can go for help in living assistance and having food in her tummy.
2007-01-01 18:16:21 · answer #2 · answered by Honesty given here! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find a crisis pregnancy center in your area. They are not a place like planned parenthood that talks people into abortions, but they try to help these young moms by mediating between them and their parents, providing support, applying for medicaid, driving to doctor visits, offering adoption information, providing babyb clothes and items.
2007-01-01 18:56:10 · answer #3 · answered by mcdaid36 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think right now all you can do is be there for her as a friend and someone to talk to. Encourage her to seek professional guidance and let her know that you are there for her. She has a long and rough road ahead of her and she will need a constant friend...it sounds like she has a good one.
2007-01-01 17:37:38 · answer #4 · answered by jf_twin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dose she have any other family members she can go to?
maybe she should tell his parents and tell them to make there son get his **** together!
2007-01-01 21:29:25 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see if youre mom can help her get her help .let her stay with you for now if it allright with youre mom and dad.talk to the school .and go from there .she dont need the child dad in her life please tell me she not on drugs
2007-01-01 18:00:12 · answer #6 · answered by riverg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be there to support her, but also learn from her mistakes.
2007-01-01 17:45:43 · answer #7 · answered by mktk401 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to find an adult to help you....
2007-01-01 17:43:45 · answer #8 · answered by KP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋