2007-01-01 08:33:07 · 19 answers · asked by waled almaz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sometimes.
There's a difference with being strict and "showing who's boss" than being rude. You need to do the first two so people will respect you.
But, they are those annoying, very rude people that need a good slap or needs someone to be rude to them before they respect you.
Don't be rude to everyone, though, only to those people that refuses to show you respect and are rude themselves.
2007-01-01 08:50:37 · answer #1 · answered by Precious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. i don't respect people who are rude at all. i respect people who respect me, and who are honourable. i respect people who stand up for themselves and others, and who think about their actions and the effects their actions have on other people.
rude people do not think about these things, and they are one of the very few people in the world i find it hard to respect. instead, treat others how you would wish to be treated, and be honest and strong.
if you do not have respect now then it may take some time for you to earn it, but over time it will happen.
2007-01-01 08:41:30 · answer #2 · answered by girl3blonde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If anything, that really counters what you wanna achieve. Being polite outweighs being rude. Be polite to any jack-off and they'll know you mean business. They may show that they don't care, or they may keep on harassing you or whatever, but in the end, you'll be sending out the right signals
2007-01-01 08:36:09 · answer #3 · answered by Θ Chez Θ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure if "rudeness" is necessary ( as it has many opinionated definitions), but people usually have more respect for another if that person is willing to stand up for themselves.
2007-01-01 08:35:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO
just walk way and don't pay any attention to them
they will get the idea when you STOP talking to them all together.
Being rude only makes you look bad- why do that?
2007-01-01 08:35:39 · answer #5 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You respect them, and if they can't show you the same sort of respect, then ignore them. Unless, of course, it's your mom or boss; in that case, you have to either attempt to earn their respect or just deal with them.
2007-01-01 08:35:29 · answer #6 · answered by mizz_milk06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yes sometimes you have to be rude but do it in away that is nice just be yourself and confidentand tell then what you feel is the best you can do if they do not like it there is not much you can do you have to balance your feeling and needs and theres but you have to come first godd luck
2007-01-01 08:49:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't necessarily have to be rude, but you need to be firm and let them know you will not be walked on. If they continue to walk over you or disrespect you, then yes it is time to get rude.
2007-01-01 08:38:47 · answer #8 · answered by NIcole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2007-01-01 08:35:34 · answer #9 · answered by Rosebud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you got to get a little ignorant. because some arrogant people run over nice people. they havve such a power over people, sometimes you just have to act out to be heard
2007-01-01 08:37:33 · answer #10 · answered by Candace C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋