2007-01-01 08:23:59 · 23 answers · asked by tyyd u 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'd wait until you are a little bit more certain of your sexuality before you approach him.
You don't need to rush this descision - take your time.
Talking to like minded people can help - google your town name and gay switchboard to find people to talk to :)
2007-01-01 08:25:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would suggest finding out for sure if he is gay before you tell him since it would be a pretty big shock if he turned out not to be. With the people in the world today and all of their closed minded thinking towards homosexuals you may want to be a little careful what you do. Plan it out instead of just being spontaneous about it.
2007-01-01 16:26:44 · answer #2 · answered by Mystic-scorpio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you think you are gay, dont tell him you have possible feelings for him though. if he is also gay it might be good for you to beable to talk about it with eachother and then after you know if he is gay or not tell him you have feelings for him, its complicated but if he reacts badly to you being gay it may be because he is in the closet him self
2007-01-01 16:29:03 · answer #3 · answered by caz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what? OK you think your gay and you think you like your best friend who is also gay, maybe.
OK talk to him and let him know whats going on
he may be gay and he might like you to and you may be soul mates!
2007-01-01 16:28:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
-Don't tell him until you are completely sure you are gay...
--Thats a huge dicision in life...
---You have to really think about this one before you go off telling everyone...
----But, I'm pretty dang sure you know you are since you are intersested in this mate...
-----From how you asked this question you seem unsure if you are or not...
------So first & for more think long & hard about this...
-------Then when you are certain you are gay then go for it man...
---------Don't be afraid to fall...
----------if you do then pull yourself right back up no matter how it turns out....
------------I wish you all the luck.... =]
2007-01-01 16:31:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well just b happy wiv who u r n go wiv it. i would wait a while til ur certain but if ur comfortable then aproach him how u normally would, b confident and ask him if hes gay. woteva happens good luck n keep ur fingers crossed! hapy new year
2007-01-01 16:30:19 · answer #6 · answered by hi bbz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont tell him. this could totally ruin ur friendship. also, if he is gay and u guys become a couple, if u break up, ull never be friends again.
2007-01-01 16:40:41 · answer #7 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him know you're gay first. See how he reacts. Give him time if he needs it. Don't mention your crush on him til he's ready
2007-01-01 16:25:42 · answer #8 · answered by stephanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"You know, I think I'm gay. I think you're gay. I think I like you. What should we do?" Pretty simple.
2007-01-01 16:25:16 · answer #9 · answered by angrysandwichguy2000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get right to the point...Beating about the Bush hurts
2007-01-01 16:26:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋