This is a totally serious question. He's been happily married for 6 years, has 2 kids, is not attracted to dudes. He has a really good and healthy sex life with his wife. Is he Bi?
2007-01-01 08:06:41 · 18 answers · asked by Lalee 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
When he leaves the bedroom
he will be happy and gay.
2007-01-01 08:08:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Good question. No, a man is not gay if he indulges in a little finger foreplay with his wife. His sexual nature and experimentations with his wife is openly legitt. It just means that the man and his wife enjoy each other and are sexually open to a few vices.
If it were the other way around and the man enjoyed this with another man then he would be considered gay. Being gay is when you share/ experiment sex with a person of the same sex.
If merely fingering a person or having anal sex dictated a persons sexual status then the whole world would be viewed as gay since alot of str8 couples do enjoy it. You've watched porn and have seen men doing anal things with women so why can't women doing anal things to men?
It's safe to say that your friend has nothing to worry about so long as he don't try it with someone of the same sex.
2007-01-01 17:01:09 · answer #2 · answered by pheirmeizer001 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not necessarily the anal channel does does have its sensual areas and medical staff have been known to place a finger inside to aid a man when a sperm sample is required have yolu ever tried anal sex you will then feel the sensation he is also feeling keep in mind that you must be relaxed lubed and often spoon position is the best for first timers but always be clean and be gentle no deep thrusts allowed this is why this position is good you keep control
Hes probably not Bi just expiermenting with someone he loves and trusts
2007-01-01 16:14:27 · answer #3 · answered by shannara 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If he is not attracted to guys at all and is happily married and enjoys his straight sex life, he doesn't have to be bi to enjoy something that feels good, even if "traditionally" it is a bi or gay thing to do. Finger play feels good, so he likes it. Simple. Girls like finger play, that doesn't make them gay or bi. It is just stimulus.
2007-01-01 16:10:10 · answer #4 · answered by Breein 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
No a man is not gay just simply because he enjoys finger play
in the bedroom. Prostate massage is healthy and very sexually
pleasurable for males, both gay and straight alike.
The stereotype of it being "gay" is just promoted by homophobia.
A healthy sexual life in bed with your partner/wife can help to ensure
a happy, stable marriage, mostly because he is getting what he
wants/needs in bed
2007-01-01 18:44:36 · answer #5 · answered by Denny T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2007-01-01 16:27:56 · answer #6 · answered by taowhore 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Unless his wife is male, then what you've said doesn't bear on his orientation. Orientation has to do with who you are attracted to, gender wise, and how you self-identify - not the type of sex you engage in.
A guy could enjoy women to go at him with a strap-on, but if he's not attracted to guys, he's straight.
2007-01-01 16:49:14 · answer #7 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Stimulating the prostate is a perfectly normal thing for people to do, straight or gay. It's like the g-spot for women, only ours happens to be located in one of the strangest places. Don't feel weird for wanting to feel good!
2007-01-01 16:29:34 · answer #8 · answered by zomgfletch 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
lol guys have a G-spot in their *** so all guys, regardless of sexuality, get turned on by "a-play." If he's not attracted to guys than he's not bi. He's totally str8.
2007-01-01 18:33:15 · answer #9 · answered by guitarherofairy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
how in the hell could a man be gay if hes with his wife. iodiocc question get a life or glassees, idiott.
2007-01-01 18:08:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, you are mixing physical stimuli with gender attraction.
is oral sex a gay thing because gay men enjoy- thus straight men whom emjoy recieving oral sex are really gay? NO
stimulating the prostate causes a lot of pleasure, that's why your friend likes it
2007-01-01 17:38:02 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋