im financialy stable. and of course id make sure im married to the man i love.
2007-01-01 07:58:49 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Yes, I'd say it IS a little young to be having kids.
You need to focus on college.
Get married AFTER college.
One big thing at a time.
Wait till your 20s. Don't worry. You have plenty of time!
Enjoy being childless while it lasts...
Because once you find out you're pregnant, it's over.
You can't go back to the life you had before.
2007-01-01 08:00:32 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Waaay too young.
No matter what the circumstance.
You will regret not having taken the time to get to know yourself and experience the world.
Children are a tremendous responsibility.
I have one child, he has ADHD and when he was little I had to keep a very close watch on him, as with all children I know, but he was especially tricky.
He would try to get outside when he was just a baby and got into everything.
My point is, he was exhausting even though I love him with all my heart.
I was 29 when he was born, no way I could of been able to handle him at 18.
2007-01-01 08:12:44 · answer #2 · answered by mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the person. Age does not make you a better mother, I have seen people over 30 that were rotten parents. and teenage mothers that were devoted to their kids, But I would wait a couple of years. No rush a lot can happen in a few years
2007-01-01 08:04:30 · answer #3 · answered by queendebadow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got married really young and feel like theres alot i've missed having children at 18 you will regret it eventually try waiting till your 22 and have a better eduction it's hard to make it wiht out a degree these days
2007-01-01 08:02:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on every situation. In your case, it may be ok. Just remember that priorities change when you get to have kids. Maybe you and your hubby can go places and travel and enjoy being husband & wife before making a family. You may not be able to do much when there are kids around. Just being realistic.
2007-01-01 08:01:56 · answer #5 · answered by OnThe36th 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait till your older, I had my first at 19 and thought it would be the best thing in the world.I love all my kids but I wish I would have waited A bit longer. The choice is yours though,no one else can make that decision but you.
2007-01-01 08:02:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, you can want them all you want, but usually one is not mature enough to handle the huge responsibility of a child. It's not only good for you, but think of the baby you bring into the world as well. Not only that, the younger your body is, the harder a pregnancy will be on it. I'd wait.
2007-01-01 08:03:16 · answer #7 · answered by Oria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me personally, anything under 25 is too young for kids and marriage, or either individually. If you're currently in education, continue with that before you even consider kids!
But if you want to anyway, go ahead.
2007-01-01 08:03:08 · answer #8 · answered by swelwynemma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Laura I would wait a few years I am 32 and I have twin girls 6yrs old.....have fun before you start a family your life changes so much good luck to you and you will make a great mom...luv kara
2007-01-01 08:03:12 · answer #9 · answered by COOKIE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes live your life first and worry about what it would take to have children when you are much older! It is hard financially and physically to bring kids up these days! I know cuz I had my first kid @ 20 and had to grow up immediately !
2007-01-01 08:06:07 · answer #10 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋