I've been carrying on an explicit and torrid on-line affair with my ex-sister-in-law for a couple of months now. She married - unhappy - and doesn't know it's me that she's been confiding in and sharing her deepest and darkest secrets with. Some of our discussions have been pretty raunchy. We've hit the point where she wants to meet off-line and make some of our discussions reality. I'm sure she'll freak when she realizes it's me. The truth is while I wouldn't mind getting together for some fun, I'm not interested in a LTR. I'm certain she wouldn't react this way if I approached her and told her I wanted to fool around. I think I'd managed to seduce her on-line. Do I drop back and just walk away or do I forge full speed ahead and set up a meeting - without telling her anything?
2007-01-01 07:45:25 · 8 answers · asked by wvngseeking 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is just down and out creepy!!! How can you sleep at night you bad boy you!!!
2007-01-01 07:48:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wouldnt want to be you. you used to be married to her sister and now you and to help her break off her own marriage. Have i got this right?
Back home mothers would ask, Well if you've had one daughter and you want the other, do you want my whole family?" LOL
let her specify exaclty what she's pursuing and if it would matter who she's speaking to.
Don't you think she might expect better from you if she's unhappy where she is?
if she's not in youre circle of friends set up a meeting so if it blows you'll hardly see her and get over it. if she is, hope to God it doesn't blow.
2007-01-01 16:29:53 · answer #2 · answered by salanie s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please just walk away. If you are not interested in a long-term relationship - you will cause nothing but heartache to thie women. Send her an e-mail saying that you want this to end without revealing your her brother-in-law.
2007-01-01 16:29:13 · answer #3 · answered by mscpa1999 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch the movie "You've Got Mail", drop hints, tell her you've been chatting with someone online an you tell her what you've been chatting about.
Then let her make all the moves, good or bad....
2007-01-01 16:05:17 · answer #4 · answered by Jim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would back off...never know if it will get back to your family and they will not be happy with you_
2007-01-01 15:48:31 · answer #5 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may want to let her know what she's in for before your meeting.
2007-01-01 15:57:35 · answer #6 · answered by dominicaquilino 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it
2007-01-01 15:55:44 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't do it.
2007-01-01 16:38:47 · answer #8 · answered by t t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋