i feel my marriage is one-sided and im the only one trying.I havnt' been married that long but how do you know when enough is enough.I have never cheated and we have no children.Although i had a miscarriage a month ago we still seem to just be ying and yang.I love him I just dont think love is enough anymore
2007-01-01 06:45:14 · 10 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I always say "when you stop cring" is when it is time to go! Your tears are like your own internal love clock. When it stops ticking you could either replace the batteries or get a new clock!
2007-01-01 06:56:22 · answer #1 · answered by Fuel632 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't think you love him, then chanches are you never have.Or if this is something that has happened since you lost the baby then its most likely depression from the loss.I have been married for 22 years, its had its ups and downs but I always know that I'm not through with the marriage when I think about do I really want to hurt him, or if I didn't still love him then nothing he could say or do could hurt me. If there is still feelings there then there is hope that things can get better
2007-01-01 07:16:24 · answer #2 · answered by kathy h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then move on, you have thought about what and the whys of this marriage and it takes TWO to tango as you know. Getting a divorce after 33 years, so yes I know what you mean, and life doesn't end after the divorce, so I've been told. Go forth and do what needs to be done, why wait I waited for a changes for 33 years, never happened.
2007-01-01 06:50:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get to the point where you don't like going home and you're uncomfortable in your own home. Enough id enough: Sit him down and tell him how you feel. Give him 2 choices: Either start trying to make marriage work, or get the hell out. And don't accept anything less. It's either all or nothing.
2007-01-01 07:06:33 · answer #4 · answered by jrsabbc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a minute You said vows and vows are made not only to Your mate but to God! I don't know enough about Your situation but I think You both need to step back and look at what matters! And just as a note God has a plan and maybe just maybe that's why You lost the little one!
2007-01-01 06:52:52 · answer #5 · answered by Jerry Y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let your husband know exactly what you are feeling. Sometime talking doesn't work out, write a letter if that is the case. Once he knows exactly what you are feeling and what you need to ease that feeling, the ball is in his court. He can chose to act upon your request or ignore it. If he is not willing to meet you half way, then you have tried. YOu can't change anyone, only they can do that for themselves. You deserve to be happy and if your husband won't work on helping that cause, then its time to think about leaving.
2007-01-01 06:50:06 · answer #6 · answered by aka_little_bit_21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you know when you are fed up...that's not something anyone else can tell you. Communicate with him about this...that's a key to any successful relationship.
2007-01-01 06:49:34 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time to confront ....write down or organize your thoughts on why you think it is one sided then without anger discuss the stuff that is on your mind....and see where that gets you the beginning of marriage is the hardest...marriage counsling helps to just go to your local church.....
2007-01-01 07:39:29 · answer #8 · answered by christina c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he feel the same...do you want to work on your relationship. You will know when you are fed up and you want your relationship to end_
2007-01-01 06:47:22 · answer #9 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give your heart some time ...
its true that love is not enough!!! listen to your heart.
2007-01-01 06:49:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋