Is it normal for your child to peek in on you while your changing?I have noticed my son doing it and I dont know if I should say something or ignore it?
2007-01-01 06:41:30 · 17 answers · asked by Samantha M 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
If your son is 27 then it's a bit strange
2007-01-01 06:44:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 1⤋
It is not normal. I am the mother of four boys, my husband would also like you to know this is not normal. Most teens don't even want to think of their mothers in this way! I can tell you that one of my sons got pissed when his friend called me a MILF. He decked him. So no boys do NOT want to think of their mothers in this way.
Coupled with the other behavior you've noticed with your son I think he is having some real problems with his sexuality, etc. I think it is best that you seek professional help before his problems become serious. The fact that he won't speak to you about things, rushes off to masturbate in your bathroom, etc and you don't seem to have an repor in being able to speak with him about these things he needs help now. Otherwise he will not be a sexually health young adult some day.
I would also say why doesn't he even have the opportunity? It is up to you to ensure that this situation doesn't even arise in the first place. Lock your door when you change and do not walk around scantly clad either.
I have to say there is something wrong in your home especially where you wrote you noticed the 16 year old boy in the neighborhood is spying on you as well and you want to see how far you can take it while it's still fun.
2007-01-03 18:34:57 · answer #2 · answered by Wicked Good 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends how old he is. A child around 6 and under, you should explain to for his curiousity. A child between the ages 7-11, you should have a talking with. A child 12+ you need to explain that it's not right to peek in on you, etc. etc. etc. Give him the good ol' fashioned verbal slap.
2007-01-01 16:42:47 · answer #3 · answered by heartsofabyss 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should close the door all the way. that would let him know that it is not kay to peek. young guys are still curious about sexuality and the opposite sex. soon he wont be as curious. this might be a good time to give a sex talk if you have not done so because then he will be less obligated to go out and explore with other females.
2007-01-01 18:20:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definately close your door and be attentive to his location when you change or bathe. You know your son better than we do but spying on family members is a lot different than non family members.
You should probably try talking to him soon though.
Good luck!
2007-01-01 14:48:04 · answer #5 · answered by TryingToLearn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont know i never would even think 2 do that it weird but my little brother always try to peek at me when im changing like he'll open my door and i'll be changing and i throw things at him and yell to get out!!! I think he does it just to bug me he's little.
2007-01-01 14:58:45 · answer #6 · answered by Mandy Mae 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
As others have said, he may just be looking to see where you are, then when he sees that you are changing, he gets embarassed and leaves. If you see him doing that again just say (not in a mean way, or shouting), "Hey, I'm changing!". Just so he knows you saw him.
2007-01-01 20:31:53 · answer #7 · answered by Supernova 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wheeew, i tought big brother was taking pics again at wal-mart in the dressing rooms !, but to your question we need to know what age he is, if he is under 5, simply say that when mommy or others are changing he must knock and get permission first, before coming into room, if he's 12 or up you've got a problem !, think edipus complex !
2007-01-01 14:46:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Yes it is very normal, talk with him, He is just little and exploring. When i was little i saw my parents change all the time.
2007-01-01 18:04:20 · answer #9 · answered by GN 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he's under 10 than yes it's normal. if he's over 10 than say something
2007-01-02 15:54:25 · answer #10 · answered by robedzombiesoul 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋