Matters of the heart? Not saying that women can not give good advice, but most women are bitter, battered, bruised and generally hateful to men because of their past experiences. I read these boards and women mostly reaffirm each other's warped views of relationships. Stop already.
2007-01-01 05:23:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why should we go to guys who lie, cheat....why not ask ask a friend...our friends know us best....you learn from someone elses experience and try to better our own experiences better_
2007-01-01 05:26:56 · answer #1 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because women think like other women and you men seem to cover for each other no matter how badly you all have acted . I am not a man hater and never have been but there is good and bad in all sexes . why do women have to have warped views ? I know quite a few men that have warped views. good luck and god bless .
2007-01-01 05:35:04 · answer #2 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are right, since there are no bitter, battered, bruised and hateful men out there, with no WARPED views of relationships. How did we ever get this way?
2007-01-01 05:28:52 · answer #3 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because women, like many men, want to hear what they wish to hear, rather then be told that the problem is often the way they act or think or the things they do on their part.
Everyone for the most part today is looking to be justified, consoled, agreed with and so forth. Very few who ask advice want to know if they themselves are the problem. People also know that freinds and relatives are generally like them, so they seek them out in order to hear what they wish.
2007-01-01 05:35:57 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. JW 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because a woman will just LISTEN - we can pour out our feelings to another woman - it doesn't mean we hate the whole male species! Men don't like to hear complaints, sniffles and sobbing do they? Men cannot just sit there and watch a woman pour out her heart and not feel guilty, self-defensive, scared, or disgusted! Another woman will provide the tea, kleenex and a shoulder to cry on, and not start rationalising the situation and providing 'solutions' etc.! That's why we go to other women for advice and comfort! It's a form of psychotherapy (but better and cheaper!) believe me, it's saved my marriage many times!
2007-01-01 06:05:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Height, I have two brothers who are your same height and had a father who was also your same height. All successful at why they do and never looked down on, more like looked up at. Maybe it's how they portray themselves, or their attitude towards life. If they ever do have self esteem problems, then I can't see it. They're always surrounded by friends. Always laughing. I on the other hand, one of three sisters did have a problem with my height. As I am 5'2" I've always been reserved and kept to myself. While my two sisters are very social and never have seemed to mind their height either. Maybe I need to start looking at myself different, and love myself. maybe ppl will see me differently too:)
2016-05-23 03:17:27 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We love to talk as you already know!! All people come with baggage right, we listen and learn when we can apply some good learning experiences to life. Bouncing ideas off others is a good thing, doesn't mean we air out everything! We hurt, cry, laugh, just like you guys, we just show it more.
2007-01-01 05:30:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its b/c women are just more sensitve and receptive and odds are they either have felt the same way or experience the same thing, so we feel secure and like we have a bond, men are kind of judgemental when it comes to that stuff
2007-01-01 05:28:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I beg to differ on this topic. I know a lot of men who share the same feelings as these women you are talking about.
2007-01-01 05:59:38 · answer #9 · answered by Aine14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe we ask eachother because as u said we r bitter bruised and hatefull and why would we go to the very ppl who made us like that in the first place?get a clue buddy
2007-01-01 05:29:05 · answer #10 · answered by naughty eyes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋